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User avatar #159894 - oborawatabinost (31 minutes ago) [-]
I've heard that internships is where it's at. I've even heard about people getting them straight out of high school. I'm a sophomore in college, and I'm starting to think a college education is overrated. At least it is in 'Murica. Anyone know more about internships?
User avatar #159897 to #159894 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx ONLINE (2 minutes ago) [-]
They're great for while you're going to college.
It shows that you're striving for more.
#159893 - atonial (1 hour ago) [-]
Alright, /advice/, I have never been good at sticking with anything, an I've been labelled as a quitter, but so far, my favorite thing to learn was martial arts more specifically, kickboxing and kempo karate . I would like to get into a martial art that was more "modern," as in, used by a military at some point in the past 30 years. I've been looking into Krav Maga or Systema which is what I am leaning towards I also own some military surplus Army and Marine hand-to-hand combat manuals that I've been reading/testing with friends. I would like to know which one I should get involved in, I'm looking for something efficient and will help me get physically fit.

TL;DR: should I take Krav Maga or Systema, or is there a better option for martial arts that are usable, but unique enough for someone to not know my moves?
User avatar #159882 - nigalthornberry (2 hours ago) [-]
Is it legal to stab someone who breaks into your house in Illinois?
User avatar #159884 to #159882 - pumkinz ONLINE (2 hours ago) [-]
yes, but if there body leaves the house (ie, burglar breaks in, shoot, falls out window) its illegal. Its wierd
#159881 - xxxsonic fanxxx (2 hours ago) [-]
Is it possible that trying to whisper/be quiet with my voice can strain it to where I can't sing?
User avatar #159885 to #159881 - garroshhellscream (2 hours ago) [-]
Yes, its worse for your voice to whisper then speaking normally
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#159874 - awesomanium (4 hours ago) [-]
FJ how do I small talk   
Like, I'm not socially inept, if I'm in a group I can have a conversation and joke around and whatever, and I can have a conversation with someone if they start it   
But I fucking suck at starting conversations   
How do?
FJ how do I small talk
Like, I'm not socially inept, if I'm in a group I can have a conversation and joke around and whatever, and I can have a conversation with someone if they start it
But I fucking suck at starting conversations
How do?
User avatar #159875 to #159874 - drastronomy (3 hours ago) [-]
"Done anything fun over the weekend?"

done
User avatar #159877 to #159875 - spaceking (3 hours ago) [-]
"Done anything fun over the weekend?"
"Yeah, I went on a hike with my friends to Gull peak, it was fantastic, how about you?"
"No I just kind of hung out..."
"Oh."
"Y-yeah."

Conversation is kill, what now?
User avatar #159878 to #159877 - drastronomy (2 hours ago) [-]
"Have you hiked for a long time, or was it just a one-time thing? (share personal experiences if any)"
User avatar #159869 - trapuke (9 hours ago) [-]
Alright /advice/ I really need your help.
This is a long shot, but just listen and give me a chance please.
Not many of you probably know me but I am always acting happy.
I do everything possible to make others happy, but I myself and miserable.
I am not really suicidal but I do not care to live.
I have worn this mask of happiness for a long time.
At night I always get super depressed, if I am not talking to people then I get sad.
I can't think too straight, so you kinda get the idea.
I need some advice on this please. I am seriously at a loss and I can't keep doing it.
#159896 to #159869 - xlordsmithx ONLINE (4 minutes ago) [-]
so... dopamine receptors.. aww fuck it... i'm lazy today... you might want to recherche this for yourself... but in general this fuckers urge you to find new stuff... get new things... explore shit. And guess what, if you ever got this feeling that you had to do one more click after you clicked one more funnyjunk/9gag/whatever funny site... your kind of hooked on this arrousal addiction thing.
I'm no scientist in this field, so better look it up for yourself. But what i want to get across is that you get this numb feeling if your addicted to something... your senses become numb and your feelings become ... like you said "you don't care"...

^^ if you realy hate your situation right now... i can only give you this advice:
recherche arrousal addiction / nofap and try it for one month...

i know there a shitload of people telling you it is okey to fap to porn and stuff... but let me tell you something... it might be, but not in this kind of addicted way...
anyway or you might just be drepressed... ;)
hope you get better
#159895 to #159869 - xlordsmithx ONLINE (15 minutes ago) [-]
Hey trapuke... first of... i don't like any kind of esoteric healing stuff... but this, i tried for myself quiet some time...

Things to keep your body/mind healthy:
(body)
- Drink min. 3-4 L water a day
- Go jogging or something
- Don't throw garbage into your body
(mind)
- Get your Dopamine desensitivity to normal levels (nofap/arrousalAddiction)
- get 7-9 hours of sleep
... and there was something more, i can't recall just now

anyway just some quick expl.:
(body)
-you know this totally stuffed feeling after a burgerking binge eating? ... yeah but this is fucking shit, because you feel nothing better after it.... well i could go on with the shit people tell you to eat right and so on... all i can tell you is -> try it for one week...

-work out... yeah this sucks i know... but if you ever were trimmed and began to eat again and you gain weight above your ... well i call it feeling good line... you become lazy bag of shit and don't want to do anything like sports... you just have to cross the line to the healthy side of life... again this is just my opinion

-drink a motherfucking load of water... but please not more than 3-4 L a day... that could fuck things up... again... it's kind of the yin yang shit ^^ anyway... if you drink that much you have to pee a shitload of times... good thing, because it washes your body free of bad chemicals ;) your kidney collects that stuff and your bloather(sorry my english sucks ^^) gets rid of them..

ok so if your body is healthy you will feel more active, loaded, ready... or something like this ^^
(mind)
-sleep... this sucks for me the most... in my head it sucks to go sleeping early, because i miss soooo much, but in truth you are missing nothing... you just steal yourself some pretty good sleep -> and btw look shit up if you sleep not enough you kill your mind... get demotivated and shit. So go fucking sleeping! hardcore...

-now to my all time favorite... your dopamine receptors... just wait for my next post ^^
User avatar #159879 to #159869 - zarnvendk ONLINE (2 hours ago) [-]
It might be an idea to try to find the core or the source of the problem, whether it be common moodswings, lack of social life or a recent tragedy with family or friends? finding the source of the problem often goes a long way towards fixing it
User avatar #159876 to #159869 - drastronomy (3 hours ago) [-]
dye your hair black and listen to emo music

that will show society

but srs look at the bright side, get some friends, exercise, etc
User avatar #159871 to #159869 - megasharkman (7 hours ago) [-]
Go to the gym
User avatar #159870 to #159869 - focalanemo ONLINE (8 hours ago) [-]
Don't act happy but be happy.
Try fixing your problems ASAP so you don't have anything to be depressed about.
Always acting happy is also a bad thing it is normal to become frustrated, angry etc so you should do that too.

Some things cannot be changed/fixed though and the only solution to that is just come to terms with it.
User avatar #159856 - imadps (13 hours ago) [-]
I'm going to be homeless and probably heavily charged if I don't come up with close to $3000 by the 29th. What do I do? How do I prepare to be homeless? Should I rob a gas station or is that too risky? I'm really fucking scared to be homeless. I've always joked around on the subject but it's one of those things that doesn't hit you until you're there.
User avatar #159873 to #159856 - minorian (5 hours ago) [-]
Probably my best tip for a future homeless; fucking get a blanket in your backpack.
You don't know how much dick I would've sucked for a blanket, one of those first nights after I gave up the key to my apartment, and had to sleep outdoors for the first time in several years.
User avatar #159872 to #159856 - minorian (5 hours ago) [-]
Been homeless for some months now, 5-6, but life at a relative now. My advice is:
If family isn't an option, then watch out if you decide to ask friends for a place to crash.
You will quickly wear down your friendship without you notice it. So it may be hard, but if you told your friend you'd be gone by the weekend, be gone by the weekend (just an example).
If they are good friends, they will contact you again themselves, and ask how you are, and without asking for a place to stay, you can tell them you're still homeless, and they may offer help themselves again.

Public indoor places that doesn't have staff and doesn't close, like bus terminals, restrooms, etc, are really good places to crash. If you need free lunch, visit places that leave food out to attract customers, or visit social places, like the library or a frat house, where there might be snacks. I ate that way and spent less than 100$ a month on food for a year, when I lost my job. I kept my apartment for a long time that way, and it also helped me on the street.
User avatar #159857 to #159856 - saltybanana (12 hours ago) [-]
just save up money for a hotel meanwhile, or be prepared to live in your car

ive been homeless before and i was hella broke, not one dime, and to top it off my girl friend at the time left me for some other dude. it was hell for me man. i was so scared as well, but my best advice is to stay positive man. find a job/ call up friends if you can crash with them for the meanwhile. remember your not alone.
User avatar #159858 to #159857 - imadps (12 hours ago) [-]
I wouldn't be as worried if I didn't have my 1 year old sister and 4 year old brother living with me. I should've went to college right after highschool. At least then I'd have a few years to get rid of a debt rather than a few days...

I might have to put them into foster care and that makes me sick to the stomach.
User avatar #159861 to #159858 - trapuke (11 hours ago) [-]
Look
I went homeless.
I lived that way for a whole year.
Live in your car, Get a tarp and cover your windshield (it will make it look like someone parked it there for the winter)
Get a shit load of blankets. Put some up around windows (it will help hold in the warmth and will keep prying eyes away)
Get on food stamps, get on welfare, swallow your pride. DO NOT ROB ANYONE
You WILL Lose your siblings.
You will go to jail, and they will be without any family at ALL.
Get a job, if you can't. Go Door to door and ask if they will pay you to do some yard work, get a paper route. Get out of this shit hole fast.
Do not be stupid and break the law, they are looking at you, set a superb examble and show them no matter what it always turns out okay.
Always smile, make them laugh and take them anywhere warm for as long as possible.
Always keep at least 5 dollars in your pocket, a cop can not arrest you for "Loitering" if you have money. Claim you had the intent to buy, and that you were not loitering. They can not say how long you are allowed to look for what to buy.
I seriously hope you get out of this soon.
User avatar #159863 to #159861 - imadps (10 hours ago) [-]
Thank you. Fortunately, I live in the middle of bumfuck county where a lot of people are related so I might be able to shack up during the colder weeks.

Cops and shop owners dont care enough about loiterers.

Unfortunately, I lack a car. I might have to get in some fights just so I can get minor jail time so I can sleep somewhere. If worst comes to worst, there's always my ghetto dad in SK...
User avatar #159864 to #159863 - trapuke (10 hours ago) [-]
Do not get into a fight for a jail to sleep.
Go to churches, ask them for help.
Tell them your story.
I do hope you get a place to live in colder weeks.
I hope you get on your feet quickly.
User avatar #159865 to #159864 - imadps (10 hours ago) [-]
Hey, on the plus side, I'll probably lose some weight.

The local church is going out of service soon, I've heard. There's another one besides that but they don't perform as often, even though they're better funded.

I wish I had more valuable stuff so I could at least attempt to come up with 3k
User avatar #159866 to #159865 - trapuke (10 hours ago) [-]
I'm not sure what to tell ya dear.
Just do what ever you can to get out of the hole, but do not do anything to destory your rep.
Otherwise you will never get out of the hole.
User avatar #159867 to #159866 - imadps (10 hours ago) [-]
If I have to I could go see my dad for work, but he's a piece of shit. He's been in and out of jail since I was 4 and in all these years we probably only have a few hours of conversation between us.

By work I mean selling tons of weed. I don't want to do that, but I want my siblings under my care more.
User avatar #159868 to #159867 - trapuke (10 hours ago) [-]
Just do what you have too.
Do not get caught doing what you must to survive.
Do not let them go into foster care.
#159854 - xxxsonic fanxxx (13 hours ago) [-]
Okay guys. I'm in deep trouble. I have a fat homework assignment due early tomorrow morning and I don't have the most recent edition of my textbook (my teacher doesn't accept homework that was done using older editions because some of the problems are different). The book I need access to is Chemistry A Molecular Approach, 3rd edition. PLEASE! And thank you!
#159832 - swiggityswooty ONLINE (15 hours ago) [-]
ok, help me right now, usually i dont give a fuck what people think about me, usually i can just go and do whatever i want without thinking about the consequences, but tonight something changed for me. drugs fucked up my memory and all i remembered was that there was somebody who wanted to smoke with me monday. i tell this to my best friend and she gets pissed at me because i promised her i wouldnt, whch i havent. long story short we got into a fight and i think she gave up on me. if this were any other person i wouldnt care, but shes different, shes my closest friend, the only one who makes sense in this whole fucking existence for me at least, and I may have just drove her away with drugs. how do i get her to talk to me again, ive been sober for two weeks approaching three at this point
User avatar #159833 to #159832 - ilikethisusername ONLINE (15 hours ago) [-]
who cares fukken blaze it fgt

jk but if you really care about her, talk to her man. tell her how long you've been sober for and how much you've been trying. i'm sure she'll appreciate it
#159834 to #159833 - swiggityswooty ONLINE (15 hours ago) [-]
i just told her how important she is to me, but i have a history of not giving a fuck which led her to believe that in a year ill just drop her as a friend all together, that im going to just go fuck up, and smoke whenever i want. how do i show her that im commited to staying sober if itll make her happy. i really cant afford to lose her. goddamn it this is the most ive worried about anything in my entire life
User avatar #159835 to #159834 - ilikethisusername ONLINE (15 hours ago) [-]
i think you should give her sometime as well. i mean she obviously cares about you back. maybe wait until she replies?
#159836 to #159835 - swiggityswooty ONLINE (15 hours ago) [-]
she just said shes going to bed and goodnight and now im way beyond freaking out
User avatar #159837 to #159836 - ilikethisusername ONLINE (14 hours ago) [-]
as i said man, some people need time to think. give her some space. wait until tomorrow and message again. don't push her.

by pushing her, you're gonna make it worse for her and for yourself because she's gonna try to avoid you even more.

let her have her time and let her think. then tomorrow morning you can send her a message again.
User avatar #159831 - feelythefeel (15 hours ago) [-]
How do you upload text?
User avatar #159841 to #159831 - averagewhitekid ONLINE (14 hours ago) [-]
click post content
change type of content to "Text/links"
User avatar #159838 to #159831 - sineztro ONLINE (14 hours ago) [-]
like to funnyjunk?
User avatar #159842 to #159839 - sineztro ONLINE (14 hours ago) [-]
okay go to post content then add text and then tyoe ir copypaste whatevs you want on there
User avatar #159843 to #159842 - feelythefeel (14 hours ago) [-]
But that just adds "Text" to the list of content items. Where do I put the text? In the description?
User avatar #159847 to #159843 - sineztro ONLINE (14 hours ago) [-]
i think so
User avatar #159845 to #159843 - feelythefeel (14 hours ago) [-]
averagewhitekid
User avatar #159849 to #159845 - feelythefeel (14 hours ago) [-]
Okay, thanks to both of you.
User avatar #159848 to #159845 - averagewhitekid ONLINE (14 hours ago) [-]
Yeah, pretty much
User avatar #159830 - ilikethisusername ONLINE (15 hours ago) [-]
sooo uhhh how does this work? like forgetting your crush. i mean like moving on, because i haven't stopped thinking about her in a fucking while. wanking it off seems boring now and i haven't done it for like 2 weeks now.

any advice on that?
User avatar #159883 to #159830 - zarnvendk ONLINE (2 hours ago) [-]
First off, no matter how much you don't care you have to jerk it, lack of masturbation is often connected to glorifying a certain girl and fapping can help you get over her. Another idea that usually works for me is to go to a party or to a club with some friends and prove to yourself that you're fine without her. Hope it helps
User avatar #159892 to #159883 - ilikethisusername ONLINE (1 hour ago) [-]
>go to a party

let me go find some friends first, then i'll think about it.

but no seriously, thanks for the help. i'll think about going to a party, that may help me.
#159855 to #159830 - dehumanizer (13 hours ago) [-]
>2 weeks

ayy lmao

try half a year and come again
User avatar #159852 to #159830 - saltybanana (13 hours ago) [-]
beat your dick like it owes you money!!

been there done that, its the hardest thing todo. only way is to find someone new, or do something that will keep you mind off of her. have you tried asking her out btw?
User avatar #159888 to #159852 - ilikethisusername ONLINE (1 hour ago) [-]
>asking her out


nigga she's way out of my league.
User avatar #159840 to #159830 - sineztro ONLINE (14 hours ago) [-]
find someone new?
User avatar #159886 to #159840 - ilikethisusername ONLINE (1 hour ago) [-]
tried that. no one seems interesting...
User avatar #159887 to #159886 - sineztro ONLINE (1 hour ago) [-]
Sorry yo that's al i got
User avatar #159889 to #159887 - ilikethisusername ONLINE (1 hour ago) [-]
its alright bud, thanks for the help man. i love people like you <3
#159890 to #159889 - sineztro ONLINE (1 hour ago) [-]
Comment Picture
#159891 to #159890 - ilikethisusername ONLINE (1 hour ago) [-]
well at least that made me laugh
well at least that made me laugh
User avatar #159823 - nigalthornberry (16 hours ago) [-]
I'm gonna make this short
My dad died last year and now my moms gonna batshit crazy
What do I do?
User avatar #159824 to #159823 - SOUL CRUSHER (16 hours ago) [-]
It's been a year? Well if his death anniversary then be sensitive. If she's going overboard just back away slowly. She might want you there one second and want you gone the next
User avatar #159827 to #159824 - nigalthornberry (16 hours ago) [-]
Its not the anniversary though
Been more like a year and a half
User avatar #159828 to #159827 - SOUL CRUSHER (16 hours ago) [-]
well there is a bunch of small factor so I can't really give solid advice. Just remind her you care for her and are worried about her. Then if she really is going crazy then kindly let her know. I don't know the situation, but if she blows up or something then it sucks at first, later she'll remember that you said you care about her
#159810 - ilikelizards (17 hours ago) [-]
Imma junior in highschool. highschool is pretty easy and the ionly real people i hang out with are my older friends who have graduated and we keep in touch online. Only problem that is my highschool life is boring as hell. Every single day is just wake up, goto school., do homework, goto bed. How do I make it more exciting?
User avatar #159846 to #159810 - averagewhitekid ONLINE (14 hours ago) [-]
I had the exact same situation last year, but then I graduated early. Not sure how you would like that lol.
Pretty much just hang out with the people you do have around there, keep talking to your old friends, and try to make a few new friends in clubs and shit
User avatar #159844 to #159810 - sineztro ONLINE (14 hours ago) [-]
Try going to a play if youre in a non shit neighborhood try some night walks, draw, fap i dunno find something that YOU like doing
User avatar #159818 to #159810 - heraske (16 hours ago) [-]
Well that's high school for you.

Unless you want to deal with a possibly damaging lifestyle, you'll have to wait until level 18 to experience the good shit.
User avatar #159811 to #159810 - braveblue (17 hours ago) [-]
Get involved with your school IE school clubs/sports/student council/volunteer. Perhaps talk to new people. Get a hobby.
#159808 - dethfreezy (17 hours ago) [-]
OK advice. I'm a scumbag. A little over a month ago I cheated. I told my girlfriend about it and obviously there were arguments and discussions right away. It was a dumb mistake that would never happen again, and I'll never stop feeling awful about it. That being said, she gave me another chance. A chance I probably didn't deserve. But since getting that second chance things have been going great. We spend nearly every day together. We get along fantasic. She is perfect for me and I couldn't be happier. I am truly, deeply in love with her. Then I get pic related today. Seemingly out of nowhere, as last night we had another amazing time. We had a short discussion after that text, me trying to understand the reasoning. But I haven't said a thing since like 4ish. What do you think my best course of action is in trying to get her back? I don't want to spill spaghetti and fuck it up. Thanks guys.
User avatar #159809 to #159808 - braveblue (17 hours ago) [-]
Why did you cheat?
User avatar #159812 to #159809 - dethfreezy (17 hours ago) [-]
Because I'm a dumb man.
My ex was still living with me. She has since moved out. She came into my room wearing like nothing and jumped me. I didn't fuck her, she sucked my dick a little before I kicked her out. Completely avoidable. I'm just dumb.
User avatar #159813 to #159812 - braveblue (17 hours ago) [-]
Well seeing as you could have avoided it, perhaps you had second thoughts with your current GF and maybe you still felt a little something with your ex that sucked you off.
User avatar #159814 to #159813 - dethfreezy (17 hours ago) [-]
I have nothing for my ex. I hope I never see her again. I want to get this girl back. I'm wondering if I should just give her space, try to continue texting about random stuff, or try to meet in person like tomorrow.
User avatar #159816 to #159814 - braveblue (17 hours ago) [-]
I'm guessing if you truly love this person you should probably try and make her trust you again. Like idk telling her everything about yourself and not holding anything in. It's probably best that you give her some time to think about this shit.
User avatar #159817 to #159816 - dethfreezy (17 hours ago) [-]
I do love her. I know that trust is easy to break and slow to earn. And I was working on earning that back. I've been an open book with her from the start. But she's having issues getting over what i did and thinks she'll end up hurting me because of it. Which I told her I want to work through any issue shes having. I didn't see her today and I felt so empty. Mostly slept. I don't know how long I'd be able to give that space.
User avatar #159820 to #159817 - SOUL CRUSHER (16 hours ago) [-]
I'm in a very similar situation. From my own experience, I told her how I felt and that I wanted to keep trying and I didn't want things to end. I took a step back and gave her some space to think and stuff. I told here I'd always be ready to talk and wanted to talk. But I left the ball in her court. She texted once or twice but never to "talk". Pretty much it's over now for me and her, pretty much out of nowhere Anyways I took a passive approach and everything slowly just disappeared, the relationship not the problems. I'm not saying that same will happen to you though. Maybe maybe not
User avatar #159826 to #159820 - dethfreezy (16 hours ago) [-]
Thanks for sharing. I'm sorry it didn't work out well for you. I had a feeling that my situation would end up like that if I did nothing. So I asked her to meet up tomorrow and she agreed.
User avatar #159819 to #159817 - heraske (16 hours ago) [-]
You got raped.

Report your ex to your local police station.

...And get laughed at.
User avatar #159825 to #159819 - dethfreezy (16 hours ago) [-]
They called me a faggot and slapped me
#159862 to #159825 - xxxsonic fanxxx (11 hours ago) [-]
I don't believe that.
User avatar #159803 - horroranime ONLINE (18 hours ago) [-]
I'm debating on whether I should change my current major.
I am a sophomore at a university. My current major is Chemical Engineering. I've completed only 2 actual chemical engineering courses so far. Most of my classes have been prereqs or Gen Eds.
I was looking at all the classes I complete in order to graduate with a degree in Chemical Engineering and all I see is headaches in my future. I'll have to take classes Calc 1, 2, 3,and 4, Chem 1 and 2, Organic Chem 1 and 2, Thermodynamics 1 and 2, Fluid Flow, Material Balance, Mass Transfer, and a senior design project.
I'm thinking about changing to a Design Engineer degree. In a Design Engineer degree, I see a lot less headaches with a lot less difficult classes. The most difficult classes I'll have to take are Calc 1 and 2 (completed already), Chem 1 and 2 (completed already), Physics 1 and 2, Statics, Thermodynamics 1 (not 2), and Material Science. Design Engineers mainly take a shit ton of CAD classes. I could do CAD all day. I used to do it in my free time during High School and took all the CAD classes available at my High School.
I feel with a Design Engineering degree I could get a job that I wouldn't have a problem doing everyday. I can't say the exact same with a Chemical Engineering degree.
The reason this is a big debate is because Chemical Engineers make the most money out of any other engineer, 70-100k/year starting salary. Design Engineers make between 45-65k/year starting salary. Design Engineers make almost the least amount of money out of any type of engineer.
Should I change my major?
User avatar #159815 to #159803 - sonni (17 hours ago) [-]
Choose whichever one you would enjoy the most. Don't pick one or the other because of the amount of money you'll make. You'll just be miserable in the long run.
#159804 to #159803 - yaribeapirate (18 hours ago) [-]
Do it. Especially if you were only doing chemical engineering for the money. Just imagine yourself in the future doing lame ass chemical engineering shit all day and constantly being pissed off or annoyed or tired cus it's just too cray cray.
#159795 - xxxsonic fanxxx (19 hours ago) [-]
Hey Fj,
I am a 16 yo US High school Student. I am a short black kid who sucks at sports in gets decent grades in a prep school (which is not optimal). I am not popular and all my core friends have girlfriends so when there off im just alone by myself. Despite having core friends I feel alone because when they go to talk with their gfs it is just me alone. When there gone I truly just feel alone without them. And I dont know how to solve it. IDK if I could get a gf Im below to average looking male, and I never really cared about appearances at all.
User avatar #159850 to #159795 - sineztro ONLINE (14 hours ago) [-]
Maybe not a specific girlfriend type deal but another also single friend?
User avatar #159801 to #159795 - beatmasterz (19 hours ago) [-]
Start caring about your appearance, be nice and confident, the rest will follow. You're black so chicks will assume you have a big dick.
User avatar #159797 to #159795 - horroranime ONLINE (19 hours ago) [-]
The real question is if you WANT a girlfriend. Are you feeling that you should have a girlfriend just because your friends do? Are you feeling that you should have a girlfriend just because you have no else to hang out with?
#159805 to #159797 - xxxsonic fanxxx (18 hours ago) [-]
No one else to hang out with.
User avatar #159822 to #159805 - horroranime ONLINE (16 hours ago) [-]
Just suddenly saying you want a girlfriend to be part of your group of friends isn't going to do shit. If you were to get a girlfriend, that girl is going to demand more of your attention than your friends it's the sad truth

I suggest you get closer to some of your non-core groups of friends, OR join a club, team, or group at your High School. You have to put in effort to find more friends and find a club, team, or group. It will be well worth it, especially if your with people who you share a common interest with.
User avatar #159790 - unncommon (20 hours ago) [-]
Anyone have the "It feels good to be white" meme with the plantation owner?
User avatar #159767 - bobvonbobby (22 hours ago) [-]
I'm transferring for this Spring. Anybody here go to University of Illinois at Urbana Champaign?
User avatar #159829 to #159767 - brownskin (16 hours ago) [-]
I got you ma boi
User avatar #159744 - mondominiman (10/24/2014) [-]
How long can fish go without food? I plan on heading back to my parents for a couple days but there's no one here to feed my fish while I'm gone. I'm gonna be gone for at least 3 days so I can feed them in the morning before I had out but the rest of the time they'll go hungry. There's no nearby places that sell the self feeders so that's out. I've had these fish for years so It'll suck to lose them due to starvation.
User avatar #159774 to #159744 - hoponthefeelstrain (20 hours ago) [-]
fish have small stomachs, so they can't hold much food. They can survive that long and most pet stores have blocks of food that your fish can nibble on while you're gone. Don't need an automatic feeder.
User avatar #159762 to #159744 - jokekill (22 hours ago) [-]
Can't you just ask someone to feed them for you?
User avatar #159747 to #159744 - makotoitou ONLINE (10/24/2014) [-]
Probably varies on the type, but I think a few days should be fine.
User avatar #159745 to #159744 - horroranime ONLINE (10/24/2014) [-]
Keep him stuffed in your pocket. He'll stop moving when he's hungry.
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