Thought you might need this. not mine but thought it was cool. HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN AND BUILD ATTRACTION A INTERVIEW WITH THE WORLD' S BEST FEMALE DATING EXPERT How to talk women
Upload
Login or register

Thought you might need this

Click to block a category:GamingPoliticsNewsComicsAnimeOther
 
Thought you might need this. not mine but thought it was cool. HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN AND BUILD ATTRACTION A INTERVIEW WITH THE WORLD' S BEST FEMALE DATING EXPERT

not mine but thought it was cool

Tags: How | to | talk | women
HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN AND
BUILD ATTRACTION
A INTERVIEW WITH THE WORLD' S BEST
FEMALE DATING EXPERTS 8. PICKUP ARTIST
Before you can build attraction in conversation
you need to know what kills t
The Female Dating Experts sag the 3 biggest attraction killers are:
aha.
Too much Not holding Bragging and
sexual Intent we contact talking too much
Biggest Attraction Killers
M Not holding we contact I poor attention span
4 7 / #2 Too much sexual Intent
3 Bragging & Talking too much (tied in third place)
4 Risky topics, Le. , sex &
5 Being too drunk
my the biggest #6 Bad
turn on is when W Being over new
rims was wander as Not being present, IE not enjoying the moment
So those are the killers, what about the builders?
Here' s how the Female Dating Experts suggest men BUILD attraction:
Listen to her
Hold we Contact -
Be present in the
Ask questions 2
But what do the Pickup Artists suggest?
The top 3 wags Pickup Artists suggest men
BUILD attraction in conversation:
Hold solid we Be fun & don' t Make a
contact focus on connection
the outcome
Female Dating Experts Vs Pickup Artists
How to talk to women and build attraction
Female Dating Expert Pickup Artist
Hold we contact
our goal is to make ‘intense we contact
a connection through V will also make god
we contact and appear more dominant
uninterrupted attention which will then make
else reels her reel more feminine
disingenuous‘ around gus"
stepheng Alexander - Tripp
LISTEN to her
The number wag a "Esten to what the
man can build attraction girl sags This will give
is to LISTEN - to ask a i . . you all the material
woman questions and to you need to keep the
be kinderegg Interested in conversation going'
her answers' - was
Ellen T white
Be present and in the moment.
Don' t focus on the outcome
All he has to do is peg ‘so into the approach
attention and complement just excited to get
the grrl Pretend she ls to know this woman
the only one in the mom‘ _, and be present in the
Lisa clappity interaction‘
Tripp
Be present and actually ‘Embrace gear inner
engaged in the exchange masculinity and becoming
Doh‘ t interrupt her comfortable with saying
sentences or worry so what' s truly on your
much about the next mind us what goo think
thing you are going to . . goo should be saying‘
sag, that you don‘ t hear - Dylan Thrasher
her speak, ask. listen
and repeat‘ \
on Black
Don' t talk too much
Talking too much is
usually due not to
but to
nervousness or a desire to
impress Remember, you
want to connect with her,
not 'opress' her '
Christie Hartman
Quit bragging
Tenses and silences
ale attuning good it you
are comfortable with
it and don' t rush to fill
them Remember, It she
likes goo on some level,
she won' t make it dlvi( Uit
she' ll help you along' -
Steve Jaime
By bragging, ‘rather than
impressing her, (which
is likely gum intent),
gum! come across as an
egocentric narcissist who where goo try to show
lacks the ability to be how cool goo are no
sensitive, communicative, bragging, no wing to talk
supportive and loving‘ ' theirself up The lion
Julie Penman doesn' t need to roar"
in my
Be FUN!
Relax and dont trg to
impress her ts going to
feel artificial and lame
That means no stories
Thank, how can I have
the most fun with this
conversation? Fun is what I
can The ultimate currency' we
Such topics can some always choose to be around
people may easily it the person we have the most
brought up too soon" hm with so figure out how
Christie Hartman goo can be THAT GUY"
Bobby no
Dent wine up risky
topics These include
ems, sex, polaks, or
anything else serious‘
Make a
connection
A ‘ten woman hears ‘Build some comfort with
that she' s beautiful all casual conversation then
dag long Focus on her . . push into likes and dislikes
brain Instead A ‘rive of local areas or places,
woman will respond figure out her passions
better to compliments and overeats'
about her looks‘ _ - Pierce new
or Wendy Walsh
Remember
Practice makes perfect Get out there and start talking to women!
FEMALE omits exams MW!/ ! no/ my mpf/
not now ttw/ _ no/ rm
renew ntp/ Nww -elro_ no/ htt_ / roxio-
Npt/ gates: art/
PICKUP mists mp_ nip/ Mm// win/ W
tow Morrow new no trm/ not "? Mia// BMW
htw// wwy no/ imam MTY/
By com
the metrics, science and Ids of pickup
to can
...
+524
Views: 27656 Submitted: 04/29/2014
Hide Comments
Leave a comment Refresh Comments (227)
[ 227 comments ]
> hey anon, wanna give your opinion?
asd
User avatar #209 - belladonnaheart [OP]
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
stickied by belladonnaheart
I never realized this content would bring so much controversy. Everyone posting is bringing up great points arguing both sides of the situation though (whether the article is ******** or actually helpful) and arguing about everything else under the sun . To be honest though, I think it's a matter of opinion. Everyone is attracted to something different. I'm attracted to a guy that doesn't try and fake it to date it. Doesn't smile all the time because he thinks I think he's not having fun or stare into my eyes ***** creepy The best quality I've ever seen and have dated mostly for is humor though. If a dude can make me laugh uproariously then it's a sealed deal because it's so hard to find someone that is actually funny now. I'd be a goddam liar if I said looks didn't play into it some because they play into it for everyone whether you'd like to admit it or not. I'm not fond of super skinny or super muscled guys, but also not to super overweight. Everyone is different and whether these tips work or not depends on the girl.
#13 - jswain
Reply +200 123456789123345869
(04/29/2014) [-]
"Intense eye contact will also make you appear more dominant"
#171 to #13 - pappysmurf
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
Eye contact!
Eye contact!
#172 to #171 - pappysmurf
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
I cant do it though.
I cant do it though.
#205 to #13 - plumotje
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
#31 to #13 - bemmo
Reply +2 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
Comment Picture
#58 to #31 - theimmortalemperor
Reply +4 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
What the everliving ****
User avatar #63 to #58 - trollchildxy
Reply +1 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
www.youtube.com/watch?v=erh2ngRZxs0 It's a ******* commercial
User avatar #82 to #13 - donatelo
Reply +3 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
pictures like these make me remmeber how hilarious this show was.
#14 to #13 - pettdavids
Reply +6 123456789123345869
(04/29/2014) [-]
Lady Killer Patrick
#1 - anon id: cba3a1ff
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/29/2014) [-]
Well, but what if I am an ugly neckbeard, 300lbs+ with a fedora? What if girls simply dont want to talk to me? This summary doesnt help me at all.
#83 to #1 - Crax
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
INTENSE EYE CONTACT
User avatar #102 to #1 - theshadowed
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
Lose weight, neckbeard and fedora
User avatar #111 to #1 - kuechenkraft
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
Then get in shape a bit, dress well and get a good cologne. Work on yourself. This doesn't necessarily have to do with your looks but with your attitude towards yourself. The most important thing forgotten here, although everybody on the list would agree on it, is confidence (=feeling good with yourself).
#127 to #1 - anon id: 783fc779
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
Stick to pillows.
User avatar #2 to #1 - belladonnaheart [OP]
Reply +40 123456789123345869
(04/29/2014) [-]
tip your fedora to her
#56 to #2 - fzjoss
Reply +3 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
M'lady, would you like to go on a date with me? Im a really nice guy and i doesnt afraid of anything
M'lady, would you like to go on a date with me? Im a really nice guy and i doesnt afraid of anything
#3 - economic
Reply +28 123456789123345869
(04/29/2014) [-]
**economic rolled image** Or ... rape.
#6 to #3 - BerserkerMushroom
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/29/2014) [-]
oh god no!
User avatar #49 to #3 - bothemastaofall
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
Holy ****, you rolled the pickup artist.
#128 to #3 - iatedub
Reply +4 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
#73 - roflrawr
Reply +21 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
Poor Brock never had a chance...
#4 - mudkipftw
Reply +20 123456789123345869
(04/29/2014) [-]
On my way to **** yo bitch
#36 - mechaemperor
Reply +17 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
They forgot the most important thing. She must be initially interested in you.
They forgot the most important thing. She must be initially interested in you.
#181 to #36 - anon id: 8badfbd7
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
while this is good start it isn't actually necessary as someone can change their view depending on how you are as a person (try not to be too fat and ugly)
User avatar #216 to #181 - mechaemperor
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
True. But that's more applicable to situations where you're exposed to the person constantly (school, work, a club). If you just met and she doesn't find you attractive in the least, any way you approach the situation out of the blue, failure seems to be the most likely outcome.
#16 - scant
Reply -7 123456789123345869
(04/29/2014) [-]
Anyone who actually needs a guide like this is probably way too fedora to ever pick up a woman anyway. These tips are like basic-level common sense for ANY social situation.
Anyone who actually needs a guide like this is probably way too fedora to ever pick up a woman anyway. These tips are like basic-level common sense for ANY social situation.
#21 to #16 - disembodiedlord
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/29/2014) [-]
Any guy, euphoric or not, can fall into the logjam of overdoing it. The content is fairly obvious to understand - as it should be - but when it comes down to execution, that's where the pitfalls start. It happens to everybody at some point.
User avatar #22 to #21 - scant
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/29/2014) [-]
Yeah, but no amount of practice will ever fix that anyway. Even the best pick up artist in the world is gonna get turned down occasionally.
User avatar #113 to #22 - kuechenkraft
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
Every PUA says that as well. Of course you will get turned down (often). Just imagine the girl's mother just had an accident and is on the way to the hospital. ******* nobody would be able to pick her up then. The difference is wether it matters to you or not. If RSD Tyler gets turned down, he laughs and goes to the next girl, if a normal dude gets turned down, hes in a bad mood for a week if he ever even dared to talk to anyone randomly.
User avatar #23 to #22 - disembodiedlord
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/29/2014) [-]
Wrong. Practice builds confidence, and confidence can make the difference between shaking off a rejection and letting it break you down.
#25 to #23 - scant
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/29/2014) [-]
That doesn't have anything to do with what I said.
That doesn't have anything to do with what I said.
User avatar #54 to #16 - Nazistick
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
I love how that other one just slowly backs away.
#86 to #16 - lionti
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
Some people really suffer with social anxiety so having these tips might really help them. Keep in mind that some people find it easy to talk to people while others would need to know these "common sense" tips to help them navigate a conversation.
#141 to #16 - anon id: 7b462eec
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
exactly. this list might as well be

dont be a weird ******.
have a small amount of decency, manners, and common sense.
User avatar #195 to #16 - weenieandthebutt
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
**** off you arrogant cunt. Not every guy has learnt or naturally picked up the adequate social skills to pick up women in highschool.
User avatar #219 to #195 - scant
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(05/01/2014) [-]
And you think a 10-step guide is enough to give you those skills?
Unless you're suffering from social anxiety issues you gain these skills by not being a shut in. Maybe you wouldn't be so touchy about it if you actually went outside sometime.
User avatar #227 to #219 - weenieandthebutt
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(05/01/2014) [-]
I'm not some fedora wearing fag or someone who's too autistic to even talk to women or has any social anxiety problems of any sort. For your information, I do go out quite a lot and lead a healthy social life, I've got guts to approach and talk to every woman but not everything's ******* easy as you make it out to be.
User avatar #27 to #16 - Masterpoda
Reply +15 123456789123345869
(04/29/2014) [-]
they gotta start somewhere.
#69 - rdangerdash
Reply +12 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
I am virtually incapable of maintaining eye contact with anyone for more than a few seconds so I guess I am just absolutely ******.
#162 to #69 - anon id: 2c0ac96f
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
i had a big problem with looking at the ground when i walk. i just kept forcing myself to look straight ahead and eventually i didnt have to try anymore. i know it sounds stupid but just make yourself do it and it will come naturally eventually
#114 to #69 - bleachcraze
Reply +1 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
build up some confidence bro look at people and take in all the details, while holding a conversation if you are to get distracted by said "cute eyes" then excuse yourself toss a compliment and continue with what you were talking about. Be yourself, be confident and practice smiling even if its a tight lip one hope that helps
User avatar #204 to #114 - EdwardNigma
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
See, you say this, but I don't know what the **** people are banging on about saying "Just get confidence" like I can buy it at the local supermarket.

I can't look anyone in the eyes, ever, not even my own family. I can't do it, physically, i feel uncomfortable, even slightly afraid, looking in peoples eyes. I can't fix this.
User avatar #122 to #69 - earlploddington
Reply +1 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
Protip: Bridge of the nose, bro. Bridge of the nose. It's a lot easier than looking in the eyes and it still sort of looks like it
#9 - anon id: fbccab7e
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/29/2014) [-]
Wonderful, once again proving men have to do 99% of the work in starting a relationship where women just have to look pretty.

So basically just stare intensely into every woman's eyes until she likes you, got it, because every single woman is the same.

100% Autistic post.
#15 to #9 - anon id: 287181d8
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/29/2014) [-]
this was something made for MEN.   
the majority of the users in this website are MEN.   
   
everyone can post one for women too, but, again, they are not the majority here so, this is more useful and more likely to be noticed in here. Also OP can be a male and therefore he posted something that he though that was useful.   
   
This isn't a gender war. Don't turn it into one   
 Also, if you really want to continue this, there are a lot of women who, in spite of being pretty, are beta as **** and simply can't MAKE A CONNECTION to anyone. It does exist. What you said about a man having to do all the work is wrong and gives people the idea that you have no idea how basic human interaction functions.    
 also, i was browsing for annoying gifs to further enhance my opinion, and all I found was a bunch of Naruto fanfiction... like.... a lot, wtf people. Therefore --> gif not very related
this was something made for MEN.
the majority of the users in this website are MEN.

everyone can post one for women too, but, again, they are not the majority here so, this is more useful and more likely to be noticed in here. Also OP can be a male and therefore he posted something that he though that was useful.

This isn't a gender war. Don't turn it into one
Also, if you really want to continue this, there are a lot of women who, in spite of being pretty, are beta as **** and simply can't MAKE A CONNECTION to anyone. It does exist. What you said about a man having to do all the work is wrong and gives people the idea that you have no idea how basic human interaction functions.
also, i was browsing for annoying gifs to further enhance my opinion, and all I found was a bunch of Naruto fanfiction... like.... a lot, wtf people. Therefore --> gif not very related
User avatar #20 to #15 - belladonnaheart [OP]
Reply +2 123456789123345869
(04/29/2014) [-]
I tried looking around for one that was oriented towards women and couldn't find anything. It's a real shame because it's sometimes really difficult to tell what a man thinks and feels during a date and whether they are nervous or they just are not into you
#43 to #20 - bbdabrick
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
Fortunately, making eye contact and asking questions about them generally works for any human interaction
#24 to #20 - anon id: 287181d8
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/29/2014) [-]
Although the chances of you finding one that looks exactly like this one are pretty small, you can get a basic counselling on that area on basically every website that was ever created for women, magazines, tv shows, etc.
The fact that you are a girl is of little relevance. We are all anonymous here and don't expect someone from a specific gender to be talking with us (at least I don't expect that). But thanks for sharing anyways I guess.
User avatar #190 to #15 - weenieandthebutt
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
I'm sorry but the way the whole evolutionary paradigm has turned out, it's A LOT easier for women to get laid than it is for men and it's A FACT! Due to the disparity of gender sex cells, men are left competing and women have the luxury of being more selective with whom they sleep with since they're the valued finite source. All a woman literally has to do is just not be a crazy bitch or abdominally ugly. Women getting hit on constantly is testament to that fact.

Guys need solid game and a **** load of social skills. I've got a six-pack, a hot body by societal standards and I still can't get laid to save my life.
User avatar #19 to #15 - belladonnaheart [OP]
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/29/2014) [-]
I'm actually a girl....but I thought this was a pretty cool thing so
#42 to #9 - bbdabrick
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
I mean if you'll notice these are mostly just saying dont stare at her tits, actually listen to her and respond appropriately. pretty basic rules for human interaction, bro.
#99 to #9 - drickz
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
But she is expected to do most of the talking, that's a pretty big job on her end.
User avatar #132 to #9 - jordanish
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
>About to write actual response
>see 100% autistic
>Realize it's not serious
I'mamoron.jpg
#183 to #9 - unlikely
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
You could argue that men have the better position, as it means they get to choose the woman they want, rather than having to wait to be chosen..?
#184 to #9 - stalini
Reply 0 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
**** off retarded fattie
#48 to #9 - habanaro
Reply +9 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
There's an entire magazine dedicated to telling women what they should do to attract men. Even if 98% of it is bat **** crazy
#89 to #48 - walmartysnextghost
Reply +1 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
I mean, that magazine just makes sure you know the big 2. 1. the less he says he likes it the more he likes it, especially things like ripping out his pubes or shaking his dick around in circles like a joystick. 2. this applies most to putting your finger in his butt. every guy likes this, you should always do it, even if you have to tie him down to get him to let you. Remember, screaming profanities means he's having the time of his life.
#85 - funbaggy
Reply +7 123456789123345869
(04/30/2014) [-]
I just put this in my favorites for future reference...

Things are getting pretty desperate.