Meh, i just decided to self identify as metakin, my pronounce are i/decide/others/pronouns, which is handy, as i simply decide on referring to someone as male or female, and if they call em out on it, i can easily rub it in their face as i self identify them as male or female, and if they refuse my insa- i mean, if they deny me my gender identity, they are basically like those white folks in colonial america who would rip up black folks passports. Worked a charm so far.