THIS.. . I think the saddest people always try their hardest to make people happy because they know what it' s like to feel absolutely worthless and they don' t THIS I think the saddest people always try their hardest to make happy because they know what it' s like feel absolutely worthless and don' t
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> hey anon, wanna give your opinion?
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#13 - EhBud
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I'm there for everyone but in the end no one's there for me .-.   
ah well, it may get me no where but it makes other happy for a bit
I'm there for everyone but in the end no one's there for me .-.
ah well, it may get me no where but it makes other happy for a bit
User avatar #69 to #13 - EhBud
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It's like the people who treat other people right are the ones that get walked all over, and the ones that treat other people like **** get treated like gold. Not fair but one day we'll find others that appreciate what we do (:
User avatar #71 to #69 - captainfuckitall
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"What we do", and what's that exactly? Treating others well so you can get recognition for it? Pro-Tip: doing something so somebody owes you one isn't exactly what an all self-sacrificing person really does.

But you're wrong, in any case. People who treat others well are often treated well in return, they just tend not to notice because they're too busy waiting for a golden pedestal. And the people who do treat others like **** get treated like **** in turn, but they don't care and let it fall off them like water on a rain-coat, because if they did care they wouldn't have the attitude in the first-place.

Life is fair, you get exactly what you work for, if you LET others walk over you, it's exactly what you deserve and you shall get no sympathy from me. What you SHOULD do if you want that recognition is actually inform people what you do and why you do it, make it one of your better points so people just notice more.
#98 to #13 - nemula
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Here, have a gif
Here, have a gif
User avatar #99 to #13 - mrcowll
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"It's alright, lil *****, you can do it."
User avatar #113 to #13 - lolothundah
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Yep. My life in your post. I'm always ready to help anyone without expecting anything back, but its just **** that no one ends up helping me. Crazy right?

You need someone to talk too? Don't worry I'll be your crying shoulder.
Need some cash? Sure I've got a few bucks.
etc.. the list goes on.

But whenever we shout "Is there anybody out there?" No one replies.

Look I've already accepted that I might end up forever alone. I've already decided that "Screw everyone else and romance, for now I'll focus on me first."

But this thought just keeps coming "Maybe one day she'll pop up, I'll just have to be ready.

That kinda felt good to get off my chest
User avatar #131 to #13 - strallee
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My file is ****** up. For every bad thing that happens to me, I become a better person. More funny, more kind and etc. Either you become sad/depressed or you look for the better things.

Or you just become crazy.
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User avatar #21 to #13 - captainfuckitall
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It's because nobody really likes dealing with emotional baggage. If they can help, they will; but not to the extent where it will demoralize them, nor should they.

You are the only person you need to depend upon, you've helped these people out of their dark times and solve their problems, surely you have the strength to do it for yourself. And when you do, you'll realize that you don't need anyone else, because you're more than capable of it by yourself (And in the meantime, I'll be your friend).
#159 to #13 - chromefile
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i'm here for you
User avatar #223 to #13 - thepollock
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I know what this is like. You're the strong pillar, but who's the pillar for you when you're crumbling? **** sucks man.
#244 to #13 - afterdelete
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If you ever need something, i'll be there!
If you ever need something, i'll be there!
User avatar #252 to #13 - peacerock
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I know exactly how you guys feel.
#257 to #13 - megpoidgumibear
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... this is the same here...
y u do dis humanatee
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User avatar #44 to #13 - skaffanl
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Same here. I can't even truly realize how people can be so selfish. I mean, if I imagine a perfect world it's not one where everyone tries to take and get what they want but where they share and give what they want.

I mean it's like we all live in a big house, you can't just ignore the other people in there.
User avatar #42 to #13 - TheLastNinja
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I'm happy when others are happy, so I try to make them happy... I'm in the same boat, my friend. I'm there for anyone and everyone who needs it, and they're typically appreciative, but eventually they move on... It sucks. We're all in this together, I guess
User avatar #68 to #42 - captainfuckitall
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Why does it suck? If you're only a good person when you think others are watching, you're not a good person; and if you dislike the fact that they are able to move on from the past and look to new things (unlike you), then you should feel only joy that you have actually done your job RIGHT.

You don't have to be 'in this together', you could easily pick yourself up and move on just as they do, helping others along the way. Truly, the only person hurting you is you.
User avatar #287 to #68 - TheLastNinja
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Oh, don't take it the wrong way, I love helping, it just sucks because the realization that you're really alone... maybe a temporary friend or so while they see convenient but nothing long term... it's just disheartening. I sit at home every day, bored. Though it has helped a bit academically and in work.. but just lonely
#150 to #13 - ohgodwaitimatheist
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fffffuuuuuuuuuuuuu
fffffuuuuuuuuuuuuu
#20 to #13 - darthmaulman
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This happened to me a recently. My cousin and 2 friends were killed in a car wreck a week ago today. I was there for all of our friends to support them this past week, but just as I was about to reach my own breaking point, it seemed that I was apparently too "clingy" and they needed some space. And yet it seemed my family was more upset with them than I was. While it bothered me a little bit, I got over it almost immediately. I just have the attitude that life is short and there are few things worth holding a grudge over and I also understand that kind of stress can make people do things that they normally wouldn't. Besides, being forced to be alone allowed me to grieve as much as I needed without feeling like I was being judged.
User avatar #23 to #20 - captainfuckitall
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Good on you for looking at it in a positive way, I'm proud of you. However, if those people want space, then give them space; don't give them a single time of day until they actually EARN it from you.

If you need to talk, or vent, or get advice, feel free to talk to me any-time; I don't judge.
User avatar #27 to #23 - darthmaulman
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I did give them the space they wanted. I had some other friends to be around, but because of varying circumstances they were all out of town. One of them is living at school about 100 miles away and 2 had to go out of state for the week for job training, but got to come back for the weekend so I spent it with them, which allowed me to have someone to rely on who wasn't about to break themselves. However the other friends did not know that I knew that they said I was clingy, because they told someone who told me. I didn't want them to feel guilty so I told them I needed to get caught up on homework, which actually wasn't a lie. I feel like I would be less understanding, however, if they hadn't been such good friends in the past.
User avatar #30 to #27 - captainfuckitall
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You should have brought it up, maybe it could have gotten them to open their eyes. They're not going to magically understand the pain you went through, only through action and intervention will they understand that you needed them just as much as they needed you in those times.

Besides, if you did just that, one of two things would happen. It would strengthen your friendship, in which case it's all for the better. Or it could weaken your friendship, in which case why would you want to be friends with such weak-willed people in the first-place?
#141 to #13 - anon id: 23b2245b
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im in the same situation bro. look at this way, the more people that you can help feel happy with themselves, the more they'll realize that you're not a bad guy. somebody will come around for you, you just gotta keep your head up! that's how i've been goin at this. somebody is bound to realize that i'm actually good for something instead of taking up space.
#15 to #13 - itsmedumbass
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I..I thought I was the only one
I..I thought I was the only one
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My comment goes to you to, buddy.
User avatar #26 to #22 - itsmedumbass
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I just find it easier to help other people with their problems than working on my own. If I can make someone else smile then I can pretend that I'm alright.
My friend asked me last week if I was alright and I told her I was okay, that I'm the king of okay and she told me that I'm the king of pretending I'm okay.
User avatar #28 to #26 - captainfuckitall
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Good for you, but I'm not trying to give you sympathy. If you WANT to be more than just 'okay', I'll be more than happy to help you, but if you're content with your lot then nobody ever could.
User avatar #29 to #28 - itsmedumbass
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I'm pretty sure that I'm content with what I got.
User avatar #85 to #15 - nicoquitemad
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We're all in this together.
User avatar #9 - stoicnick
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I try but it seems the people like the most like me the least so **** you maybe i'm mentally retarded
User avatar #24 to #9 - captainfuckitall
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Let me give you a piece of advice:

People are more annoyed by people demeaning themselves (I.E. "Am I annoying you yet?") than by actually being annoying. Having such a pessimistic outlook as you do, it's no wonder people don't like to be around you.

You have to change the way you see yourself before anyone else will do it for you.
#34 to #24 - stoicnick
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nah, **** people.
nah, **** people.
#11 to #9 - thransk
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Seeing as you couldn't make a coherent sentence, I am going to have to say you are.
#12 to #11 - stoicnick
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yes thank you, I shall go and potato now i guess.
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User avatar #40 - chexlemeneux
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I'm like a god. The only time people interact with me is when they want something.
User avatar #43 to #40 - Sethorein
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and for but a moment... you are the only thing between their success and failure... you have the power to destroy their machinations... but you don't. Yet nobody will ever acknowledge your hand in it.
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So be like a god and ignore them. If you always bend-over backwards without making a deal out of it, of course people are gonna come to you and walk all over you because you will never say anything but mumble behind their back or listen to hard-core music or complain on the internet.

Honestly, you're only doing it to yourself. The good thing about that though is that you can fix the problem just as easily.
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#178 to #102 - anon id: a95a69ec
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That actress is dead.
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#233 to #102 - anon id: a425be3d
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Faggot
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#251 to #102 - itstehchibiness
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*hugs* I don't comment very often, and even though many have replied already, I hope you feel better. I've been in your position.
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#117 to #102 - cuppycakechick
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#128 to #120 - cuppycakechick
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I'm happy I could make someone's day!
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#132 to #130 - cuppycakechick
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Making awesome people's days one virtual hug at a time
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#136 to #133 - cuppycakechick
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Hey now, turn that frown upside down!
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#142 to #139 - cuppycakechick
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Puppies + Bubbles = Happiness!
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#153 to #143 - cuppycakechick
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<--MORE CUTE ANIMALS!!

....Lol not really besides studying/stalking my friends later
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User avatar #171 to #167 - cuppycakechick
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Hahaha yes
I love the sloths
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I'm always stalking
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#146 to #102 - soopfox
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The best I can do from here. Always here if you need some more <3
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User avatar #148 to #147 - soopfox
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As in my username?
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#160 to #152 - soopfox
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I've been hanging out on the current bronyboard a lot and on ponythread.com, when admin deleted the thread.
So yeah, might be from there you know me
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User avatar #163 to #162 - soopfox
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Not much, got back home from work, like 20 mins ago.
How about yourself? How's it going?
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I'm a survey assistant at a company called Nellemann & Bjørnkjær.
Well, what do you do for living? School, Uni, work?
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Lol, it's Danish. So it it would sound ****** up if I tried pronouncing it in English. Also, good luck on pronouncing "æøå". (Scandinavian letters)

What year?
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Fair enough, I'll respect that.

How was your day?
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How so?
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Do vidya games bore you?
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What's the problem then?
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Reading through your thread, I find you mildly depressing....
I like that.
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I repeat.
I like that.
#103 to #102 - harryhai
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at your service
at your service
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#106 to #104 - harryhai
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you´re welcome ^^
you´re welcome ^^
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#108 to #107 - harryhai
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ach, its ok I guess. but I have coffee, thats makes everything better. whats ruining yours? the huglessness?..is that even a word...
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I have a friend like that. Only a few people really tolerates his all-over-the-place behavior, as he can get pretty annoying from time to time... I, however, know what have caued it. When you know this kind of stuff about your friends, you grow to respect them so much that they will never ever seem too much to you.   
   
I have only seen him frowning once, and that was when I accidently hit him with a metal rod - He blasted me with 2,5 seconds of complete rage, whereafter he awkwardly tried to smile again. I was so ******* scared, I had never tried anything like it before or since. I swear, I cannot remember anything I dread more than him angry.   
   
Keep in mind, I am 1,85 m tall and weigh about 80 kg, and he is about 1,60 and weighs 45 kg.   
   
He can be annoying, yes. But when you understand why, you cant do anything but forgive him.
I have a friend like that. Only a few people really tolerates his all-over-the-place behavior, as he can get pretty annoying from time to time... I, however, know what have caued it. When you know this kind of stuff about your friends, you grow to respect them so much that they will never ever seem too much to you.

I have only seen him frowning once, and that was when I accidently hit him with a metal rod - He blasted me with 2,5 seconds of complete rage, whereafter he awkwardly tried to smile again. I was so ******* scared, I had never tried anything like it before or since. I swear, I cannot remember anything I dread more than him angry.

Keep in mind, I am 1,85 m tall and weigh about 80 kg, and he is about 1,60 and weighs 45 kg.

He can be annoying, yes. But when you understand why, you cant do anything but forgive him.
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keep him close
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I do. I really do.
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good.. tell me a little more about him?
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Well, okay then.

He is not very large and wears suits with tophat and fedora. He is from Thailand orginally, but was adopted at the age of 2. He is very creative and loves anything that lets him paint, form, draw or in any other way create stuff - on the other hand, he can be quite creepy, what with his devotion to the Daleks and the Necrons of Warhammer 40K.
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sounds interesting.. I'm glad you're friends with him.
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I am too.
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it's ok bro, I'm feeling it harder right now because I am that person
User avatar #81 - hargleblarg
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I try and make people smile no matter what I do. I buy gifts for my friends, I make stupid voices and awful jokes, I listen to their problems and offer advice, I generally try and be there for them no matter what.

Does this mean I feel worthless? No.
HAVE I felt worthless? Sure.

In my eyes, if you can make just one person smile a day, your life isn't to even be considered pointless or meaningless. If you made that person smile then you made a difference, possibly at a time where they needed that smile. The number of times I've felt like crap, only to be brought out of it by a terrible pun or a simple "how are you feeling?" is insurmountable. Don't underestimate the power of a smile.
User avatar #140 to #81 - darksideofthebeast
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Are you my reflection?
#155 to #140 - hargleblarg
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Am I your reflection, or are you mine?
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Dude...
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Yes...?
Yes...?
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YOU CANT DECLINE THAT FEEL
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I made mine yesterday because I can't see the good quality version of the old one anywhere
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story of his life
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explain bullies then mate.
explain bullies then mate.
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they're no people
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their*
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I don't really mind when people use words wrong.   
But when people CORRECT things wrong?
I don't really mind when people use words wrong.
But when people CORRECT things wrong?
#116 to #100 - lamanad
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User avatar #177 to #92 - qpcugh
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Compensation for small penises
User avatar #214 to #92 - ohgodmysides
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(10/15/2013) [-]
#95 is good (thumbed), but I'll try to copy the format

I think bullies are the least selfconfident
and saddest people out there

because they never learned what it means to be loved
which makes them feel worthless all the time

and they want everybody else to feel the same
so they don't have to feel like the worst, just for a minute
User avatar #227 to #92 - mikkeldp
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(10/15/2013) [-]
I dont know why but someone sould add a brazzers logo to that
#95 to #92 - fourtitwo
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(10/15/2013) [-]
... They make themselves feel happy by making everyone else sad by comparison. In the spectrum of sad, they're the polar opposite.
But still sad.