Straight Up Caught Comp. 5
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Sperit (01/04/2016) [-] 
That last one
Why do people cheat?
How could someone turn something as beautiful as love and turn it into sadness and pain?
Why do people cheat?
How could someone turn something as beautiful as love and turn it into sadness and pain?
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brothergrimm ONLINE (01/05/2016) [-] #1 reason is insecurity. The cheater feels unattractive or just has ****** self esteem and cheating makes them feel more desirable. It's weak minded and pathetic.
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thedungeonmaster (01/05/2016) [-] People cheat for so many reasons. I never would because I think it's the biggest sign of disrespect you can show someone, but many don't feel the same.
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gloriousthighs (01/05/2016) [-]
It is a scary thought that there are scenarios that could make even the most devout people cheat, just got to hope that doesn't happen. I'm someone that likes to take things slow and will only get physical with a person that I would consider a long term relationship with. If I find someone like minded at least the chances of being cheated on are lower.
Also, a tip. It is important to understand that love does fade, it's been proven to fade rather drastically. This can frighten people into thinking they don't love the person they are with or that they aren't suited but that's not true. Love just fades. We either need to accept that and ditch monogamy or find a person who understands that a long term relationship does take work and isn't always in the honeymoon phase.
Also, a tip. It is important to understand that love does fade, it's been proven to fade rather drastically. This can frighten people into thinking they don't love the person they are with or that they aren't suited but that's not true. Love just fades. We either need to accept that and ditch monogamy or find a person who understands that a long term relationship does take work and isn't always in the honeymoon phase.
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dharkmoswen (01/05/2016) [-] Don't listen to this second part. Absolute ******** . If your "love" fades, it wasn't actually love. Love is something that will never fade.
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everyziggy (01/05/2016) [-] I don't know if fade is the right word for it, more like it becomes common place and gets taken for granted.
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gloriousthighs (01/06/2016) [-]
It is scientifically proven to 'fade' drastically in most relationships. The first year of marriage is especially common for this. Love is not some mystical force. It is simply a strong attraction of body and mind. Passionate love is typically only at the beginning of a relationship and maybe sparked a few times later on. Compassionate love is the typical feeling people associate with the word love and it does fade, no matter who you are. If you can't accept that then you're in for a shock when it happens to you.
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dharkmoswen (01/06/2016) [-] Wow... love can't be measured. Only the chemical reactions. Do you seriously believe love is nothing but a chemical reaction? If that were the case, nature would take over and we would all be hetero and divorced in months.
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gloriousthighs (01/07/2016) [-]
I wish you were right though. If love was special and there was that little bit of magic in the world everything would seem much brighter.
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gloriousthighs (01/07/2016) [-]
Everything we feel is a chemical reaction. Love is not special, same as how humans are not more special than an ant. Love is like the opposite of depression, they both take control and blind a person into believing certain things. Love is just the good to depressions bad. Do you honestly not believe that depression isn't proven to be a chemical imbalance?
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dharkmoswen (01/08/2016) [-] I guess we'll have to agree to disagree. As someone who's been in a successful and happy marriage for over 8 years, I still feel that spark.
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gloriousthighs (01/08/2016) [-]
It's not something to disagree or agree with, it's just proven that love fades in the majority of relationships, same as how a great number of marriages end in divorce. I just have to hope that both of those are due to dumb people not finding the right match. If more people could be like you then the world would be better.
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dharkmoswen (01/08/2016) [-] And as someone who has felt that spark for far longer than most people date and has seen it in couples who have been married for 50+ years, I don't believe it's just chemical. So yes, we'll have to agree to disagree
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animesource ONLINE (01/05/2016) [-]
Never been in a relationship so idk but my guess is that there never was love in the first place. They just had sex, liked it, and called it dating while continuing ******* anything that moves.
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animesource ONLINE (01/05/2016) [-]
Well, at very least I can suggest to wear knee guards.
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OpticalIllusion (01/05/2016) [-] This has been asked on AskReddit a few times, it's interesting to read;
www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/2y8mnp/serious_cheaters_of_reddit_why_are_you_currently/
www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/2y8mnp/serious_cheaters_of_reddit_why_are_you_currently/
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xxwrathbornexx ONLINE (01/05/2016) [-] I don't know, man.
It hurts to be dumped, but it hurts even more to sometime find out your "significant" other is cheating.
I'd say, instead of being a whore-boy/girl, tell them about your feelings instead of cheating on them behind their back.
It hurts to be dumped, but it hurts even more to sometime find out your "significant" other is cheating.
I'd say, instead of being a whore-boy/girl, tell them about your feelings instead of cheating on them behind their back.
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anon (01/05/2016) [-]
The only real explaination I've seen that covers mostly everything. People make it a complex, dramatic heart wrenching story anytime cheating comes up on funnyjunk. Reality is basic human psychology and instinctual drives and the inability to curb temptation. Physical attraction leading to lust combined with an environment (secluded, alcohol, or whatever) doesnt take a rocket scientist to figure out why some people cheat and some don't.
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capnkrunch (01/05/2016) [-]
That doesn't mean it isn't a ****** thing to do and have happen to you
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trollmobile (01/05/2016) [-] people are immoral, selfish sacks of **** .
all one can do is not be one themself, and search for someone else that isn't.
all one can do is not be one themself, and search for someone else that isn't.
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concetrationcamp (01/05/2016) [-] **concetrationcamp used "*roll picture*"**
**concetrationcamp rolled image** Because the partner gets boring after a while. Specially if the sexual life gets monotonous and boring. That's why you have to spice it up sometimes in a longer relationship. If you do it only at home in missionary position with lights off then there is no surprise that some day you get cheated.
**concetrationcamp rolled image** Because the partner gets boring after a while. Specially if the sexual life gets monotonous and boring. That's why you have to spice it up sometimes in a longer relationship. If you do it only at home in missionary position with lights off then there is no surprise that some day you get cheated.
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itsapirateslife (01/05/2016) [-] Then end the relationship, don't go hurting your 'partner'. **** sake, some people..
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concetrationcamp (01/05/2016) [-] I didn't hurt anyone. What is your ******* Problem? If You disagree just move along. Nothing to see here.
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censius (01/08/2016) [-] I used to be in a polyamorous relationship (meaning we could have more than one partner (sexual or romantic)). It's harder for me to understand people who break up because of cheating. I mean, I still think it's bad to do, I've never done it in any of my monogamous relationships: it's deception and the breaking of a promise. I basically think it's the same as telling a lie.
People act like if your girlfriend slept with someone else they didn't love you, or people imagine they could never love more than one person at a time. I just think that if you plan on marrying someone, worse **** is going to happen to your marriage than your wife being attracted to someone else. When people break up over it I feel like they're not trying very hard.
I know this is not a popular concept.
People act like if your girlfriend slept with someone else they didn't love you, or people imagine they could never love more than one person at a time. I just think that if you plan on marrying someone, worse **** is going to happen to your marriage than your wife being attracted to someone else. When people break up over it I feel like they're not trying very hard.
I know this is not a popular concept.
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ashedust (01/04/2016) [-] For some people the excitement wears off. They thought they could handle commitment, but they couldn't.
Unfortunately, people get hurt when their other cheats and some people don't seem to realize this.
Some people see it as a game. How long can you go without getting caught? The sexual thrill! Others feel wronged by their partner in some sense and see cheating as a form of revenge.
There are a number of reasons. All of them are ****** .
Unfortunately, people get hurt when their other cheats and some people don't seem to realize this.
Some people see it as a game. How long can you go without getting caught? The sexual thrill! Others feel wronged by their partner in some sense and see cheating as a form of revenge.
There are a number of reasons. All of them are ****** .
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itskennyandjosh ONLINE (01/05/2016) [-] The guy i was with said he gets horny and makes poor decisions, you can add that to the list
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milkyhammer (01/05/2016) [-] pretty sure all guys make ****** decisions when we're horny
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coolioshades (01/05/2016) [-] Cause people get boring.
Eventually youll develop a taste for something else.
Nobody plays one video game for the rest of their life. Nobody eats one type of food for the rest of their life.
Sooner or later you will crave variety. The question will just be whether or not you act on your urges.
Im not a cheater, just been cheated on.
My best advice would be to keep your relationships casual. Dont invest yourself past the point of having fun.
Eventually youll develop a taste for something else.
Nobody plays one video game for the rest of their life. Nobody eats one type of food for the rest of their life.
Sooner or later you will crave variety. The question will just be whether or not you act on your urges.
Im not a cheater, just been cheated on.
My best advice would be to keep your relationships casual. Dont invest yourself past the point of having fun.
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dharkmoswen (01/05/2016) [-] That or, you know, actually invest yourself into that one relationship that's worth it.
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catzor (01/05/2016) [-]
Sometimes it cant be explained.
Done it twice, still wondering why. once drunk and once sober
Gf at that time found out eventually ofc, and we worked it out.
Broke up about a year later.
But yeah, I've been there and I have no excuses and I cant give you any reasons.
It literally just happened if you can believe me.
Ofcourse I regret it. I hate it. I dont want to be that person. But yeah, **** happened
Done it twice, still wondering why. once drunk and once sober
Gf at that time found out eventually ofc, and we worked it out.
Broke up about a year later.
But yeah, I've been there and I have no excuses and I cant give you any reasons.
It literally just happened if you can believe me.
Ofcourse I regret it. I hate it. I dont want to be that person. But yeah, **** happened
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kuntz (01/05/2016) [-] you put it into words that i couldnt form. i cheated once, when i left i cried and hated myself so much, i know i wont put this type of pain on my partner or myself again but there is no words to really explain why i did it and im still wondering to this day. It really does, just happen
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ricobendimez (01/05/2016) [-]
Hate to break it to you, FJ. Frequently, sex becomes routine and neither party is really feeling it anymore. I think it sucks, it really does, but sometimes a relationship cqn be salveged after it. I know I would never cheat on anyone, but after being with someone for a long time, you begin to understand why someone does it. Having been cheated on twice, I can understand the pain. The first person I took back because I figured love will conquer all, the second person I threw out like trash.
Cheating is unfair for the person being cheated on, but don't be so quick to judge the person that cheated. No one really know all the circumstances of why it happened. I think that if you feel like your on the verge of chesting, you should talk with your partner or simply break up with them. Even my dad had cheated on my mom when they were younger, and now they are together for roughly 25 years. When I asked my mom why she stayed with him, she said "We broke up twice as we were trying to come to terms with it. I also don't get jealous, I get even."
Cheating is all too common as you grow older, unfortunately, so don't be surprised if it happens to you.
Cheating is unfair for the person being cheated on, but don't be so quick to judge the person that cheated. No one really know all the circumstances of why it happened. I think that if you feel like your on the verge of chesting, you should talk with your partner or simply break up with them. Even my dad had cheated on my mom when they were younger, and now they are together for roughly 25 years. When I asked my mom why she stayed with him, she said "We broke up twice as we were trying to come to terms with it. I also don't get jealous, I get even."
Cheating is all too common as you grow older, unfortunately, so don't be surprised if it happens to you.
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thejusticar (01/05/2016) [-] there are some relationships where the partner doesn't really love the other person. they could just be doing to for personal gain or even sexual interest. another thing might be that cheating is a dangerous thing to do and it excites them.
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brobyddark (01/05/2016) [-] It is because the mere act of your self-copulation changes the universe's usually nice and lovely structure to the point where unfortunate things happen to unfortunate people. In this act of self-copulation you- and only you- are the source of all bad things in the world, from dead dinosaurs, to dying Africans. From cancer and autism, to cheating men and women. Should you not self-copulate, we would see a great and brighter world in which we would raise our children, while your whiny, homosexual buttocks shines as a beacon or heroism.
TL;DR because you touch yourself at night you ******* faggot.
TL;DR because you touch yourself at night you ******* faggot.
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randomuploads (01/05/2016) [-]
Come on don't be naive. 85% of relationships are not about Love. They are about status, security and convenience.
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affix (01/05/2016) [-] Because people aren't satisfied with one person.
The dishonorable have multiple people because maybe one person is bad at this, or does this annoying thing. Instead of living with it, they just have more relationships so they get the best of everything.
Its bad but its why it happens.
Instead of one outfit for all the occasions.
Multiple outfits for the specific occasion.
i actually think they're lazy and squishy. If you want change in your life, ask it of your partner and be assertive rather than just finding another one.
The dishonorable have multiple people because maybe one person is bad at this, or does this annoying thing. Instead of living with it, they just have more relationships so they get the best of everything.
Its bad but its why it happens.
Instead of one outfit for all the occasions.
Multiple outfits for the specific occasion.
i actually think they're lazy and squishy. If you want change in your life, ask it of your partner and be assertive rather than just finding another one.
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anon (01/05/2016) [-]
what if you got stuck with the wrong girl, and had to stay with them, simply due to getting them pregnant, and the relationship between you and the girl, is mainly, (only) there due to the fact the condom broke.
What if you meet your dream girl, can never touch them, spend time with them, or ever be with them because your stuck?
Before I could never understand why men cheat. Now, I understand. Women of my dreams is my age, we share so much, and i cant stop thinking about her. Cant do anything as I knocked up someone else, who needs love and support herself.
Girl Im with, lied to me. Told me she was 23 when i met her(3 years older then me, but she looked 16), shocked when i found out she was 12 years older, and only found out once she had had the baby.
Cant leave her. But by staying I have ruined 2 families. The one I should have had with my real soulmate, and the one SHE should have had with her soulmate.
The girl of my dreams makes my heart flutter just when i hear her voice. She broke her leg, and all i wanted to do was carry her up the stairs, and hold her hand and watch a movie.
I dream of just holding her hand, even if its just for a split second. Alas, I havent, but truth be told, im cheating by staying with my current partner.
TL/DR. Found my soulmate after stuck with someone else, who is 12 years older. Never would have dated her had she not lied about her age.
What if you meet your dream girl, can never touch them, spend time with them, or ever be with them because your stuck?
Before I could never understand why men cheat. Now, I understand. Women of my dreams is my age, we share so much, and i cant stop thinking about her. Cant do anything as I knocked up someone else, who needs love and support herself.
Girl Im with, lied to me. Told me she was 23 when i met her(3 years older then me, but she looked 16), shocked when i found out she was 12 years older, and only found out once she had had the baby.
Cant leave her. But by staying I have ruined 2 families. The one I should have had with my real soulmate, and the one SHE should have had with her soulmate.
The girl of my dreams makes my heart flutter just when i hear her voice. She broke her leg, and all i wanted to do was carry her up the stairs, and hold her hand and watch a movie.
I dream of just holding her hand, even if its just for a split second. Alas, I havent, but truth be told, im cheating by staying with my current partner.
TL/DR. Found my soulmate after stuck with someone else, who is 12 years older. Never would have dated her had she not lied about her age.
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platinumaltaria ONLINE (01/05/2016) [-] Here's a ******* tip: DON'T DATE SOMEONE YOU DON'T ACTUALLY LIKE
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electronicbacon (01/05/2016) [-] You think we do?
Here's how relationships usually go:
First few weeks, maybe a month - the girl pretends to be all sweet and nice. You like that and automatically start spending more time with her. After some more time she notices that you're loyal and that you wont leave them easily. THEN they show you their true colours: manipulative, pissy little detached cunts who get upset over the smallest things, think that they are ultimately right about everything, even how the grass is red and the clouds are blue. And the trouble is, you can't leave her because you still care about her, but you don't like her. Caring for a person isn't the same as loving them. That's why people, even if they're with someone they don't actually like, don't leave their partners. Because they'll still feel bad about leaving someone even though that someone treated them like the scum of the earth.
Here's how relationships usually go:
First few weeks, maybe a month - the girl pretends to be all sweet and nice. You like that and automatically start spending more time with her. After some more time she notices that you're loyal and that you wont leave them easily. THEN they show you their true colours: manipulative, pissy little detached cunts who get upset over the smallest things, think that they are ultimately right about everything, even how the grass is red and the clouds are blue. And the trouble is, you can't leave her because you still care about her, but you don't like her. Caring for a person isn't the same as loving them. That's why people, even if they're with someone they don't actually like, don't leave their partners. Because they'll still feel bad about leaving someone even though that someone treated them like the scum of the earth.
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dharkmoswen (01/05/2016) [-] Obviously, the argument should have stopped here. Once they show you that bitch side, run for the hills and don't look back. Why would you stick around in a relationship that's bound to crash and burn? Bitch starts acting cray, leave. Problem over.
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platinumaltaria ONLINE (01/05/2016) [-] Well that's ******* stupid. If everyone would just go after what they actually wanted no one would be lonely.
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electronicbacon (01/05/2016) [-] If everyone would just go after what they actually wanted
Like I said. We do. The girls show us what we want, we go for it. After they've reeled us in, they show us what they really are.
It's simple fishing.
Like I said. We do. The girls show us what we want, we go for it. After they've reeled us in, they show us what they really are.
It's simple fishing.
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platinumaltaria ONLINE (01/05/2016) [-] Yes, in that all of my experience is incomparable.
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electronicbacon (01/05/2016) [-] Care to give us an example?
You know, to prove how stupid my point apparently was
You know, to prove how stupid my point apparently was
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platinumaltaria ONLINE (01/05/2016) [-] Well your point is predicated on the preposterous proposition that women are purposefully perfidious, which I find to be not only patently false, but also practically screaming that you've had a recent bad experience.
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electronicbacon (01/05/2016) [-] That I have. Quite a few times.
All of my friends, too.
I know that good women exist in the world, but I'm not really seeing it right now.
All of my friends, too.
I know that good women exist in the world, but I'm not really seeing it right now.
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platinumaltaria ONLINE (01/05/2016) [-] Well let's think logically, shall we? It's a simple matter of finding a cause, a common denominator if you will, that explains the trend. That's you. You are the problem. Choose better people.
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electronicbacon (01/05/2016) [-] "WHINING THAT YOU HAVE A FETISH FOR BITCHES"
Right. Did I ever say that I like that they do it? No.
It's just that everyone I've come across either was one or they've dated one.
And how can I pick better if, like I said in an earlier comment, they pretend to not be bitches even though they are?
Right. Did I ever say that I like that they do it? No.
It's just that everyone I've come across either was one or they've dated one.
And how can I pick better if, like I said in an earlier comment, they pretend to not be bitches even though they are?
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everyziggy (01/05/2016) [-] I mean, I know you two are in an argument and all but maybe you do have a fetish for bitches and just don't realize it. It's the male equivalent to the girls who will only date bad boys and then cry about how all men are pigs.
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electronicbacon (01/05/2016) [-] You think they dont know what theyre doing? They're really good at covering themselves up.
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platinumaltaria ONLINE (01/05/2016) [-] Right, it's all a conspiracy by women to hurt you, and you own none of the blame.
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electronicbacon (01/05/2016) [-] So I've got to be an idiot to not understand when a woman is lying or not?
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platinumaltaria ONLINE (01/05/2016) [-] You seem to be confused. Women do not lie; assholes lie. Detecting an asshole is not that hard.
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electronicbacon (01/05/2016) [-] You sure made it sound like all women are idiots incapable of lying properly.
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platinumaltaria ONLINE (01/05/2016) [-] No, that was you. I said that you were the idiot.
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electronicbacon (01/05/2016) [-] "I'm a good person"
I can't count how many times I've heard that said.
I can't count how many times I've heard that said.
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platinumaltaria ONLINE (01/05/2016) [-] Trust me, I understand how you feel. The difference is I don't care anymore.
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emiyashirou (01/05/2016) [-] This guy goes around all over the place saying he's a 'good person' and pretends (or maybe he's just autistic) to not understand why doing that is obnoxious and makes people dislike you.
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electronicbacon (01/05/2016) [-] Maybe where you live. But here women know how to keep a facade up pretty well.
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electronicbacon (01/05/2016) [-] Oh no, not at all.
It's just that women are stupid and don't know how to lie properly, meaning you can easily tell when they're lying or not.
It's just that women are stupid and don't know how to lie properly, meaning you can easily tell when they're lying or not.
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electronicbacon (01/05/2016) [-] I meant people. I don't believe in people anymore.
Whenever I see a person doing something good or nice, I can't believe that they're doing it for a legitimate reason or just because. I can only believe that they're doing it either to blend in, to seem normal or to just make others believe that they're a good person even though inside they might not be.
Gender has nothing to do with it.
Good people are only fictional.
I've seen too many people pretending to be good and being despicable when nobody is looking to believe that people, like you said, actually exist.
Whenever I see a person doing something good or nice, I can't believe that they're doing it for a legitimate reason or just because. I can only believe that they're doing it either to blend in, to seem normal or to just make others believe that they're a good person even though inside they might not be.
Gender has nothing to do with it.
Good people are only fictional.
I've seen too many people pretending to be good and being despicable when nobody is looking to believe that people, like you said, actually exist.
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platinumaltaria ONLINE (01/05/2016) [-] Well guess what, I'm a good person, and I'll tell you I know exactly why people don't do good things: no one cares. If I died tomorrow some people might be sad for a week. No one's going to lose their **** if I go, so why not eh? People are born good and slowly damaged until they aren't, that's called life. And I have no life.
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anon (01/05/2016) [-]
No, that's how your ONE relationship went.
Don't date people you don't like. People don't leave their partners because they get comfortable and they become a habit.
After all, being single is scary right? Best just stay where you are, miserable but in a familiar situation. People like familiar things and don't like change, so they keep themselves miserable for literally no good reason.
Don't date people you don't like. People don't leave their partners because they get comfortable and they become a habit.
After all, being single is scary right? Best just stay where you are, miserable but in a familiar situation. People like familiar things and don't like change, so they keep themselves miserable for literally no good reason.
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joberja (01/05/2016) [-] Probably not really love at that point. Or maybe the love has grown stale. People are weak, or bored, or maybe they are just waiting for something better to come along, and are testing the waters before diving in.
Point is, if someone is cheating, its past time to end the relationship. Maybe you guys just need some time apart, and will find each other again later.
Point is, if someone is cheating, its past time to end the relationship. Maybe you guys just need some time apart, and will find each other again later.
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TheCorrupter (01/09/2016) [-] Because over half the time dating is never about love. Just casual sex and companionship. Love comes after if you're lucky.
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itskennyandjosh ONLINE (01/05/2016) [-] I once dated this guy for 6 months, it was going good till he told me he came super close to cheating on me and that he has "thoughts" about other guys and even said his fantasy about another guy, he was a ****** dick. wanna know the stupidest thing about it? after a week of being broken up he said he still jerks it to the pictures i sent him and that's hella creepy and weird he was a ****** mess god damn
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thrifty (01/05/2016) [-] Personally I'm in the 'delete private pictures' group, I've sent some filth and so have some of my exes, I've deleted that **** though in case of lost phone etc.
There's no need to be weird about pictures of exes, I mean **** man there's porn of everything, or at the least they could keep it to themselves...
There's no need to be weird about pictures of exes, I mean **** man there's porn of everything, or at the least they could keep it to themselves...
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toosexyforyou (01/05/2016) [-] So he didn't cheat on you. He shared his feelings. And after you were no longer interested in him, you then found him creepy. Right... definitely wasn't your fault. Well actually I take that back, I'm not saying it was exactly your fault, I'm just saying you sound like a piece of **** .
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itskennyandjosh ONLINE (01/05/2016) [-] Be broke up with me cause he had a feeling he was gonna end up cheating on me btw.
But how would you feel if your ex broke up with you, then in a horny mood say he jerks off to your pictures?
But how would you feel if your ex broke up with you, then in a horny mood say he jerks off to your pictures?
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toosexyforyou (01/05/2016) [-] He broke up with you because he wasn't interested enough in you to commit so of course he needs to find someone that he would feel was worth not being able to look at other people. And he didn't actually cheat on you so you can stop bringing that up like you're one of the people that were cheated on, he handled it the way it's supposed to be handled.
That depends, "I'm getting horny by looking at your pictures" very clearly means "i'm in the mood to bang but I don't want any strings attached." So if I'm in the mood to bang just for the sake of getting one in, then I'll say yes. If I'm still into her or if she hurt me enough then I'll say no.
That depends, "I'm getting horny by looking at your pictures" very clearly means "i'm in the mood to bang but I don't want any strings attached." So if I'm in the mood to bang just for the sake of getting one in, then I'll say yes. If I'm still into her or if she hurt me enough then I'll say no.
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dharkmoswen (01/05/2016) [-] The moment you found out, you should have dropped him. If you knew from the start, then you're just a homewrecking whore and should shoot yourself.
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everyziggy (01/05/2016) [-] Geez, you're awfully judgey...you know not everyone follows your personal set of morals right?
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dharkmoswen (01/08/2016) [-] Then as far as I'm concerned, you were already in a friend/aquaintance-relationship (as opposed to a romantic relationship) and if he didn't tell the person he started dating, it's on him and you should advise him to be honest.
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anon (01/05/2016) [-]
If you knew he had a partner, or found out later but still continued ******* him...yes you should feel horrible. It'd disgusting to cheat on people that love/like you, and just because you aren't the one cheating, doesn't make you any less guilty if you knew about the relationship.
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anon (01/05/2016) [-]
So really you're the one he's cheating on?
As soon as he started a relationship with someone else you should've dropped him.
I would give advice not to date scumbags because they treat you like dirt, but you seem to be a good match.
I wonder how many other gullible women he has on the other sides.
As soon as he started a relationship with someone else you should've dropped him.
I would give advice not to date scumbags because they treat you like dirt, but you seem to be a good match.
I wonder how many other gullible women he has on the other sides.
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novahowl (01/05/2016) [-]
Let me rephrase because clearly I worded it wrong the first time. What's the point if cheating? You can find somone who is okay with you having multiple partners and have a serious relationship with them or you can decide to be clear that the you don't intend to be committed to one person.
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holycrapimacupcake (01/05/2016) [-] If it's an open relationship and bith parties consent to having sex with other people when their partners says it is alright, then that's one thing. Cheating is what happened in the post.
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ainise (01/05/2016) [-]
Ahh cheating, the age old mystery.
Guys, Gals, if you want to **** around on your gf/bf/wife/husband, talk to them first. Maybe a couple sessions of counseling will help. Maybe they're perfectly cool with an open relationship. Maybe life will be better with 1-2 more people in bed. Just..don't cheat. Relationships start with lust but they thrive on communication.
Guys, Gals, if you want to **** around on your gf/bf/wife/husband, talk to them first. Maybe a couple sessions of counseling will help. Maybe they're perfectly cool with an open relationship. Maybe life will be better with 1-2 more people in bed. Just..don't cheat. Relationships start with lust but they thrive on communication.
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kiaserzerg (01/05/2016) [-] "hey, ive been having sexual thoughts about other people, can you help me out and talk to me about this"
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anon (01/05/2016) [-]
Everyone's talking about the cheating thread and I'm just trying to figure out how the first image has the triforce service provider.
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dehnoobshow (01/05/2016) [-] >>#105, Eric caught his girlfriend cheating on him with her roomate.
He got mad
He got mad
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dehnoobshow (01/05/2016) [-] Now Im confused
Okay
I think I got it this time
The left is twitter maybe, the girl's original boyfriend
Eric is her roomate, she probably lied about having a boyfriend (Lied as in she told him she didn't) and those two got together.
So both Eric and original boy learned she's a cheating whore.
Makes more sense now
Okay
I think I got it this time
The left is twitter maybe, the girl's original boyfriend
Eric is her roomate, she probably lied about having a boyfriend (Lied as in she told him she didn't) and those two got together.
So both Eric and original boy learned she's a cheating whore.
Makes more sense now
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nanako (01/05/2016) [-] these are both hilarious and depressing. but they are certainly interesting, keep it up x
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nickotak (01/07/2016) [-] GTAV =/= GTAO
I might be wrong, i might be tired to **** but it SOUNDS legit... And stresstesting online servers is usually done by public playertesting isn't it???
I might be wrong, i might be tired to **** but it SOUNDS legit... And stresstesting online servers is usually done by public playertesting isn't it???
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anon (01/06/2016) [-]
If my boyfriend ever cheats on me, I'll kill him, I'll kill the hoe and then make it looks like an accident. If there is something I cannot fathom, it is cheating. If you get bored of your partner, TALK ABOUT IT WITH HIM/HER before doing anything you could regret. My first boyfriend cheated on me because wanted to get to know him before doing the naughty for the first time (I was 15 at the time and he was a virgin as well, or so he said). When I learned it, I cut all ties with him immediately and decided to stop getting involved.
It took me 3 years before going back in the dating game. I met my current boyfriend, and it just feels great, we get along great, he often tells me that it is awesome to be both lovers and great friends and I can't agree more.
Tl; dr : Got cheated on once, it destroyed my self-esteem and the image I had of men, currently in a relationship that never left the honeymoon stage for two years and a half.
It took me 3 years before going back in the dating game. I met my current boyfriend, and it just feels great, we get along great, he often tells me that it is awesome to be both lovers and great friends and I can't agree more.
Tl; dr : Got cheated on once, it destroyed my self-esteem and the image I had of men, currently in a relationship that never left the honeymoon stage for two years and a half.
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bwiedieter (01/07/2016) [-]
Oh. Sorry femanon If that was you frenzyhero, please accept my apology!
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frenzyhero (01/08/2016) [-] No, it wasn't me. Don't worry, it took me a moment to get it too, since it meant it was either a girl posting or a bisexual boyfriend. Just phrasing I wasn't used to.
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brawnyjavo (01/05/2016) [-] Keep in mind that you're asking FJ, meaning mostly young men who don't have a lot of experience.. Everybody has a different perspective and experience, and given the demographic, a lot of these people have already been hurt. From my experience, people who cheat do it for various reasons, from insecurities in a relationship to twisted fetishes.. But regardless, they each have their own justifications for it as well. I've been cheated on and a cheater, and neither is painless or easy
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brawnyjavo (01/05/2016) [-] I wasn't suggesting that at all. I meant only what I said with no intended undertones. The intention is really just to say that cheating can't be summed up with one reason.
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fuzzyballs (01/05/2016) [-] I'm like 95% sure you had to use the ATM in the first week or two of online
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listerthepessimist (01/05/2016) [-] pretty sure you did very early on, even to this day the message about holding more that $5000 tells you to go to an ATM to bank it
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fuzzyballs (01/05/2016) [-] that just means it's a feature you can use
a few months ago someone bought GTA V for pc, and I had to actually tell him you could use your phone to bank cash, and that players can steal max $500 in one go anyways, so it's pointless now
a few months ago someone bought GTA V for pc, and I had to actually tell him you could use your phone to bank cash, and that players can steal max $500 in one go anyways, so it's pointless now
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dehnoobshow (01/05/2016) [-] I actually liked using the ATM
But only when it was an option.
Like if there was one next to me when I spawned.
Here's my highest character
I'm the asshole with the phone.
But only when it was an option.
Like if there was one next to me when I spawned.
Here's my highest character
I'm the asshole with the phone.
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anon (01/06/2016) [-]
I have a cheating story.
My partner cheated on me after we had a fight. He was drunk at a party and he did something to upset me, so I called him a cunt and went home. That's when my whore of a "friend" threw herself at him.
Damn, I was mad when I found out. I was actually more mad at her than at him. She was supposed to be my friend and I knew she liked him, she always said she was "so jealous" but I didn't think she'd ever be waiting for an opening to jump his dick. And I saw how absolutely wankered he was before I left.
He was extremely upset after our fight, as well as really ******* drunk. Upset, drunk, has a dick and a chick is offering herself to him? Well, he's only human.
Two days later he told me what happened. 5 years together and I'd never seen this ***** cry until that day. He seemed really ******* grossed out that he did stuff with her... And I didn't blame him. This chick was gross, and I'm not just being a bitch. She was a landwhale with short green hair, stretched ears, a face full of piercings and ****** tattoos. While I was under a modelling contract at the time. I sound stuck-up I know, but this chick was never a threat to me.
I logged into his facebook and found messages between them from the morning after it happened. I can't forget the panic of seeing that he'd messaged her, I was expecting them to have plans to run away together as they're madly in love or some **** .
Nope. The chick was already blocked on his fb. The conversation started with her asking if he enjoyed last night, and him replying that he was drunk and it was a mistake. It escalated to her saying **** like "I thought we had something, last night was amazing, blah blah" and he straight-up savaged her by saying he doesn't find her attractive in the slightest and only has eyes for me. She went crazy on his ass and started crying that he used her, and I guess that's when he blocked the cumdumpster.
So, 4 years later here we are. Still together. We talk about it time to time, it's like one of those stories that weren't funny at the time but he still gets red-faced when I taunt him for shagging the gross landwhale. We see her out in the club and can't help but nudge him and giggle.
My partner cheated on me after we had a fight. He was drunk at a party and he did something to upset me, so I called him a cunt and went home. That's when my whore of a "friend" threw herself at him.
Damn, I was mad when I found out. I was actually more mad at her than at him. She was supposed to be my friend and I knew she liked him, she always said she was "so jealous" but I didn't think she'd ever be waiting for an opening to jump his dick. And I saw how absolutely wankered he was before I left.
He was extremely upset after our fight, as well as really ******* drunk. Upset, drunk, has a dick and a chick is offering herself to him? Well, he's only human.
Two days later he told me what happened. 5 years together and I'd never seen this ***** cry until that day. He seemed really ******* grossed out that he did stuff with her... And I didn't blame him. This chick was gross, and I'm not just being a bitch. She was a landwhale with short green hair, stretched ears, a face full of piercings and ****** tattoos. While I was under a modelling contract at the time. I sound stuck-up I know, but this chick was never a threat to me.
I logged into his facebook and found messages between them from the morning after it happened. I can't forget the panic of seeing that he'd messaged her, I was expecting them to have plans to run away together as they're madly in love or some **** .
Nope. The chick was already blocked on his fb. The conversation started with her asking if he enjoyed last night, and him replying that he was drunk and it was a mistake. It escalated to her saying **** like "I thought we had something, last night was amazing, blah blah" and he straight-up savaged her by saying he doesn't find her attractive in the slightest and only has eyes for me. She went crazy on his ass and started crying that he used her, and I guess that's when he blocked the cumdumpster.
So, 4 years later here we are. Still together. We talk about it time to time, it's like one of those stories that weren't funny at the time but he still gets red-faced when I taunt him for shagging the gross landwhale. We see her out in the club and can't help but nudge him and giggle.
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elcreepo (01/07/2016) [-] That last one... I was expecting someone to say the "cheating bitch" was someone else's
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ihatecarltonbanks (01/05/2016) [-] The news one is actually pretty common and acceptable practice in news isnt it? i thought news sites would often just use archived photos from previous stories when a new one isn't available.
