my gf is annoying me lately. She has developed some aging issues.. And she is constantly telling me "oh, I wish I was 14".
I am telling her "Just wait a little, you'll be there in 2 years, sheesh!"
Uhhh why would that make a difference if you love the woman already? I wouldn't give a **** if my gf had a kid from a previous relationship...and besides I like kids so it would be nice to have a bond with her kids even if they weren't mine.
Idk why you're being thumbed down, you aren't wrong. The kid will never be yours, look like you, relate, and she will always have some sort of attachment to the father which is bound to cause problems. Who knew Funnyjunk was full of cuckolds
when you'll get older and will f**k enough girls, you'll realize that you need your perfect woman irregardless if she has kids or not.
The ONLY drawback from divorced or women with kids is that they MAY in some cases have a bad past and hence amy be more cautious towards you with her feelings.
Anyways - if you're young, a good measure below 30, you shouldn't even look at women with kids, even if she popped one out at 18, because she was dumb.
Later you'll rather opt for someone you like genuinely.