Sleepycast. A Podcast of various animators such as OneyNG, PsychicPebbles, StamperTV not anymore tho , Spazkinin3d, Cryburger, RicepIrate, and JohnnyUtah.
**uberbunk used "*roll picture*"** **uberbunk rolled image** Well, I mean, all masochism is is one's deriving pleasure from their own pain. The person causing the pain is not formerly specified, although I would assume the majority of the time they would be causing it to themselves, seeing as how your own body is more consistently available than an actual sexual partner. Masturbation is more common than sex for the same reason. However, I imagine they would enjoy it more if they had a partner inflicting the pain, just like I think sex is better than masturbation. It all comes down to taste, I guess.
You laugh, i had an ex who wanted me to choke and her i just couldn't bring myself to do it! She was pretty unimpressed, but i just couldn't bring myself to hurt her, even if it was for fun. Anyone else like this?
did she want you to actually choke her, or have your hand around her neck but to use slight pressure? i like when my BF chokes me, but we talked about how much pressure he can use and not to go more than that, he didn't like it at first but he got into it. everyone has limits. Next time just talk about it with her, give it a try, let her tell you how much pressure she wants on her neck, tell her how far your willing to go.
As said below, there is a difference between hurting and hitting pressure points that are pleasurable. I ask my boyfriend to bite me sometimes, and when he was doing it uncomfortably I showed him how I like it to be done, and it's great. Its just about communicating and knowing the difference between rough play and actual physical damage.
Talk to her about it, then get nice and drunk. Light bondage spanking and choking just require experimentation and a little drink takes that edge of awkwardness away, once she gets used to it she'll probably be more open with her own little kinks too which makes for some good times. Being together for a while helps too, gotta have that trust there.