But isn't this exactly why all this "you can be any way you want" stuff is ******** ?
A rhinoceros will never be a unicorn, no matter how hard it tries, it will never be what it wants to be.
I don't say this stands for the extreme "Fat positive" agenda that is going on, but to a certain degree...
Not everybody can have that slim body and still be healthy, on the other hand some people weigh a 220lb and still aren't fat, while not being muscular either...
The same goes with careers, some people can work 50 hours a week and are still happy with their lives, others do not have that ability, some people are completely off with 30 hours a week...
Why do we say "this person is worth more than the other?" Why do we expect everyone to have the same unhealthy high standarts? Why do we shame someone because he can't live up to what others do? Why do we hate those that demand more for the jobs they are doing, "because others get less and work harder"?
Everyone struggles in life, struggles with his life often, some people can't take it. Are these people worth less than others because they couldn't take as much bullying or disappointments as others?
What is normal and easy for someone may be impossible for someone else, but still we are all measured by the same standarts.