"Real men do xyz" bull**** turned around

#11 - kaosminett

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(10/20/2013)[-]

now i ain't saying she a gold digger

#13 to #11 - ghostyzg

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(10/20/2013)[-]

but she ain't messing with no broke ******.

#16 to #13 - plwmar

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(10/20/2013)[-]

She gives me money...when I'm in need

#23 to #16 - LifeIsADisease

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(10/20/2013)[-]

Welcome to the Hotel California

#43 to #23 - kaosminett

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(10/21/2013)[-]

nailed it

#1 - nanako

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(10/19/2013)[-]

pre nuptial agreements are an excellent idea for everyone.

the exact content of them is negotiable, and of course it should be discussed and agreed upon by both parties. But i think you should be extremely suspicious of someone who isn't willing to commit to the things they say they'll do, especially if you plan to spend the rest of your lives together.

#4 - theblargypargler

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(10/20/2013)[-]

Whassa prenuptial agreement?

#5 to #4 - roflcopterskklol

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(10/20/2013)[-]

You go into the marriage with what you take, you leave it with nothing you have not earned.

#6 to #5 - theblargypargler

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(10/20/2013)[-]

Wait, isn't that the only way that makes sense? Do people do it differently?

#7 to #6 - roflcopterskklol

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(10/20/2013)[-]

yeah the woman gets 50% -75% of everything, custody of children and the man has to pay child support.

#8 to #7 - theblargypargler

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(10/20/2013)[-]

The ****? Am I just so out of the loop that I never cared to notice or is this something new?

#9 to #8 - roflcopterskklol

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(10/20/2013)[-]

You are really out of the loop, this has been going on for like 30 or more years.

#20 to #5 - nanako

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(10/20/2013)[-]

no

it's an agreement, nothing more or less. Whatever is in it is for the individual parties to discuss and agree on, before the marriage. they can include compensation/security and limited liability in the event of divorce under various conditions

#2 - klldarkness

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(10/19/2013)[-]

I have told each and every of my ex's that if we ever made it to the point of marriage, that we would have a Pre-nup. Each and every single one took it like a slap to the face. xD

#14 to #2 - quiescat

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(10/20/2013)[-]

at the time it was but the prenup is not for now, its for when your life changes from a hugs and kisses romance. instead it becomes mechabitch vs dickheadlilzla fun fact prenups protect both party's if done right

#18 to #14 - plwmar

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(10/20/2013)[-]

funny thing is that some women get offended by such a suggestions,as if they were expecting the marriage to eventually end at some point and get a sum of their counterpart's savings/belongings.

#10 - adu

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(10/20/2013)[-]

It takes a mature relationship for both parties to come to an agreement on something like this. It's not saying you love them any less, it's not saying you expect the marriage to end, it's simply acknowledging the fact that there's no guarantee that things will end in butterflies and old age and becoming one with the force, and agreeing that in the event of separation things should be fair for everyone involved.

#27 - delphine

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(10/20/2013)[-]

My grandparents have been married for 65 years. They advise to built a relationship on trust, respect, working hard together, and laughing a lot.

My parents have been married 25 years. They advice couples to treat your relationship as though divorce IS an option, but to treat each other in a way where they would never dream of seeking that option.

Statistically speaking, any marriage I have in the future is looking great because I have so many good examples in my family of happy, successful marriages.

#24 - opiethepug

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(10/20/2013)[-]

Sup, /pol/. Was wondering when you were going to start posting here.

#21 - micekill

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(10/20/2013)[-]

don't get the joke

#26 to #21 - anon id: 439c9c3f

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(10/20/2013)[-]

a prenup is basically a contract stating who gets what if a couple divorces. Its 100% optional but if you do divorce without a prenup, you are risking alot imo

#12 - totalycrazzy

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(10/20/2013)[-]

Is it true that some states in america that the judge can just throw out the prenup?

#28 to #12 - clonedcommando

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(10/20/2013)[-]

I don't believe so it is a legally binding contract. But other normal laws have been thrown out the window in the name of "**** the husband" so who knows.

#3 - idoliam

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(10/20/2013)[-]

I don't have a pre-nup.

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#31 to #25 - idoliam

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(10/20/2013)[-]

I'm the wife. Neither of us have much, so we wouldn't get anything out of one.

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#33 to #32 - idoliam

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(10/20/2013)[-]

I don't agree with them.

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#35 to #34 - idoliam

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(10/20/2013)[-]

Both. I'm tired of women getting off scott free after their marriage is over. It's not always the mans fault, I've seen more couples break up because of the women than I have the men and they're demonized for basically doing nothing. I don't like pre-nups because it almost always ***** the men over- and feminist say us women are being oppressed.

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#37 to #36 - idoliam

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(10/20/2013)[-]

I'm more tired of people bitching about "the sanctity of marriage" when they're on they're 3-6th marriage...yeah, real sacred guys. My husband and I have an agreement that if we end up getting a divorce for whatever reason, we would give each other enough time to find a place and just take what we came with. He'd get the TV, the bed, the xbox, his phone, and his clothes. I get my clothes, my phone, and my laptop. I'm mature enough to understand that sometimes things don't work out and it's best to just let go than try and make their life hell.

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#39 to #38 - idoliam

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(10/20/2013)[-]

Call this cheesy and hopelessly romantic, but I got married for the love and devotion. I love my husband, I have before we even began dating. We both want to raise a family together- see life we created together grow. No religious reasons and not even for tax, just for the sole purpose of wanting to spend our life together.

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#42 to #40 - idoliam

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(10/20/2013)[-]

Thanks. And there's nothing wrong with not wanting to marry, if they get angry because you don't want to then they're obviously not the right person. I hope you find a good and understanding lady.