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paintplayer [OP](09/19/2014) [-] The twist: we live together.
How does this affect my living situation going forward if I find out my girlfriend who I live with is a lying whore and my friend/colleague is a total bastard and a backstabber?
How does this affect my living situation going forward if I find out my girlfriend who I live with is a lying whore and my friend/colleague is a total bastard and a backstabber?
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retardxatxlarge (09/19/2014) [-] You need to stop making excuses. You're like the girl who won't break up with her abusive boyfriend because her cds are in his truck. She cheated, quit sugar coating it. I know it's horrible and I know the feel trust me man, but the longer you sit there and try to defend her actions with "what ifs" the more it will hurt. She denied everything at first, then when you confront her she admits to a little bit of flirting, shes just saying anything to get you off her case. She's crying because she got caught not because she's worried about you. Don't waste your time on people like this man.
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kingpinkie (09/19/2014) [-] **** ....do you guys split the rent? If you don't the it shouldn't really **** up anything....other then emotional stuff it's gonna hurt like a bitch if it is what you think it is
Well....you could let it play out a little longer? Maybe discuss this with his gf see what she thinks of it? See If she agrees with what you think and what not
Though if you do let it play out prepare for the worst
Well....you could let it play out a little longer? Maybe discuss this with his gf see what she thinks of it? See If she agrees with what you think and what not
Though if you do let it play out prepare for the worst
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paintplayer [OP](09/19/2014) [-] We pay separate rent, so financially it wouldn't be a problem I suppose. However, the pain of living with someone who ruined me emotionally for the next 8 months frightens me immensely. As for his gf, it's a weird situation because he, his gf, and I are all ROTC cadets in the same battalion, so not only is it a friend situation, it's a work situation. I'm not sure how to approach it.
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kingpinkie (09/19/2014) [-] Hrmmm.....if you pay separately couldn't you move out if you wanted to?
And couldn't you just pull her away and chat about it? Or is it more complicated en that?
And couldn't you just pull her away and chat about it? Or is it more complicated en that?
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paintplayer [OP](09/19/2014) [-] It's slightly more complicated because she is also my subordinate in the program so their relationship is somewhat inappropriate to begin with. I'm not sure if I can sub-lease via the terms of my lease, but I could ask my landlords.
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kingpinkie (09/19/2014) [-] Hrmm...well it wouldn't have to involve anyone except her right? I mean, just have a discreet chat about it and don't let it get out of hand?
Well atleast the living situation can be solved
Well atleast the living situation can be solved
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paintplayer [OP](09/19/2014) [-] Yeah I suppose that's true, I would have to be way discreet about it though. I also don't want to become known as the paranoid asshole in case I'm wrong.
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kingpinkie (09/19/2014) [-] Well from what I've read I'd be suspicious as hell too I've been in this situation aswell....except we where only together for a year and we weren't living together
But yes talking with his gf about it might help clear this up
But yes talking with his gf about it might help clear this up
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tomahawkkit (09/19/2014) [-] well it seems like she cheated on you because she didn't want to break up with you to **** your friend. this could be because she doesn't want to hurt you which justified by being really nice to you after she thought you found her out. so, in other words, she didn't cheat on you to try to get back at you or to make you angry, its a possibility that she just wanted some. have you considered having an open relationship?
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paintplayer [OP](09/19/2014) [-] Open relationship might be an option, we kinda did that once when we broke up for a brief period about 2 years ago. I would probably just phase out of it though
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paintplayer [OP](09/19/2014) [-] You're supposed to click the purple text above the link, dude.
