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lampmountaindew

im top, shes bottom. i thought they were both interesting points. i want to see what you think. is this a boy/girl thing in terms of sides? is the truth somewhere in the middle?

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So me & my bf broke up 2 month ago
bed: he left me 4 another girl he met
online but he diesn' t know that girl is
secretly me catfishing him
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alt. semis chick made a take is messaged her bf,
e ial than the real pf her ever maid. she
keeps this Charade up fer ... the relationship ends... and shes a
genius. she played herself and shes smart...
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d. its a Wke that he can' t see what was really in hunt pf him.
l appreciate her sci she haste pretend he be somebody else
just he get the kids attentoin. He' s played fer thinking he mu someome
better when its really what he' s had all alpha.
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#1 - darthfox (01/07/2016) [+] (2 replies)

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Guy: Hey babe do you want to go to the movies tonight
Girl: Not right now, Ive got a "work" teehee email I need to respond to, gotta put some thought into it, might take awhile, you might as well go play your xbox or something

#9 - awesomedewd (01/07/2016) [-]

Did that once. Didn't take long to get a date with her.
Yeah. It is being an asshole.
But being unfaithful is worse imo.

To put it into words: If it takes you long to 'catfish' him/her, then the problem is probably more that you started to neglect him/her while 'catfishing' him/her.
Obviously you'll have it easier. You can see what you do wrong in the relationship or what s/he's missing and use exactly that to 'catfish' him.
Imo you're the idiot then, for ******* it up for yourself.
Is 'to catfish' an actual word? Never heard of it.

But if it takes you one or two conversations to get him/her to set a date. Then s/he is an unfaithful **** .

This view is probably really biased though.
I've been cheated on, in various ways (not only relationships), so having trust in someone is rather hard for me.

#16 to #9 - brainbug ONLINE (01/08/2016) [-]

Getting her to agree to a date and getting her to break up with you are two very different beasts.

#5 - captainbalu (01/07/2016) [-]

I'm pro girl guy's a dick for not being loyal

#17 to #5 - gcloud (01/08/2016) [-]

i truly hate to be a grammer nazi but it took me too long to figure out what u were trying to say. next time remember the comma, please.

#22 to #17 - captainbalu (01/08/2016) [-]

I'm sorry. I'm from germany and basically you use commas there everywhere, but i've been *********** once, that i would use too many of them and now look, what i've become. Also grammer naziing is a nice thing, how would i be able to develop a better english, otherwise?

commas set like i would in german

#7 to #5 - lampmountaindew [OP](01/07/2016) [-]

oh yeah no he shouldnt be talking to other chicks, but this seems like its entrapment to me. what are the odds that he started talking to the fake fb profile that his very own girlfriend uses to catfish people? the way this girl describes what she did indicates that she carefully planned this and that if she didnt approach him, she must have enticed him to approach her using a more passive technique (i.e. liking maaaad pics/statuses, commenting friendly/flirty things). if the tone this woman uses is indicative of anything, it shows that she ****** herself with a knife, and now thinks she is some kind of player. shes a joke and frankly i believe women are putting her on a pedestal which is just lowering the already lowered bar that women seem to try and aim for underneath as is.

#15 to #5 - brainbug ONLINE (01/08/2016) [-]

The dude clearly either already wasn't happy with his current relationship, or was manipulated to be unhappy with his current relationship. In either case he was morally right to leave, rather than drag out a loveless relationship.

He did the right thing by breaking up with her, rather than cheating on her.

#10 to #5 - notwalkingwaffles (01/08/2016) [-]

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I can see where you're coming from, but one thing is saying "I've met somebody else and fallen in love with them, and at the same time fallen out of love with you. What we have isn't going to function like this." and actually cheating on the girl by going out and ******* somebody else.

There's no mention of cheating on her, there's a mention of a break up - leaving for another girl. We do not control our emotions, but we control our actions, and evidently he didn't meet the girl in question before cutting it off with his old flame - which is the way to do it rather than start the dating game with a girl you don't love anymore on the homefront in case things don't work out the way you hoped.

Anyway, the girl is evidently manipulative to an extent where it was probably not going to be a healthy relationship in the long term, and personally I am spiteful towards her level of dishonesty towards her boyfriend, and I am glad on his behalf that he's no longer in a relationship with that person.

In essence, I cannot see from whence the idea that the man in question was disloyal stems. Could you elaborate?

#4 - dustykeyboard (01/07/2016) [-]

if she really were as good as she made him feel through her online persona then he would not have left her. She probably treated him even better when talking with him online than what she did with him in person.

#14 - brainbug ONLINE (01/08/2016) [-]

It really depends on how the girl did the catfishing. Was she just being herself but with a different name, or did she adopt an alternate, less abusive, personality?

I'd think it's more likely to be the latter, considering you'd have to be mental to think this was a good plan.

#18 to #14 - anon (01/08/2016) [-]

I'm inclined to agree. I can't imagine the scenario likely being that the girl is just playing herself and nothing more. But it's also not unreasonable to think that the situation is possible. In which case it more implies that the guy in this relationship is pretty shallow if that were the case.

#13 - thatdemonbaneguy (01/08/2016) [-]

THe whole situation is ******* retarded.

#12 - anon (01/08/2016) [-]

Unless the guy was crossing some borders during the relationship I think it's basically the girl ******* herself over.

#8 - evilkingganon (01/07/2016) [-]

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**evilkingganon rolled image** bitches like this need to be put down. Why they **** would you even consider doing something like this? To someone you supposedly care about. Christ if she didn want to be with him theres better ways

#2 - unfitninjuh (01/07/2016) [-]

I agree with the top. However, you have to wonder, how thirsty does she have to be to even consider this kind of Revolver "Revolver Ocelot" Ocelot-level **** ?

#26 - anon (01/08/2016) [-]

isn't that just like when the police provoces a crime? the unfaithfulness might never have happened unless she in the first place had manipulated him into it.

#25 - TheEpicTroll (01/08/2016) [-]

The guy clearly wasn't happy in the relationship, to be seeking comfort elsewhere, with the other woman- the 'catfish', so perhaps instead of deceiving her boyfriend, when they clearly weren't in a good place, she decided to apply that effort to the relationship, things would've run smoother.

HOWEVER, it doesn't matter if I HATE my girlfriend, for one reason or another, I'd never cheat on her. Break up with her and move on to a new lady, sure, but never go behind her back like that.

She's retarded, he's an asshole.

#24 - anon (01/08/2016) [-]

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#21 - hazeleyedstranger (01/08/2016) [-]

Isn't this basically the story line of the song if you like pina coladas?

#20 - anon (01/08/2016) [-]

This is sad on both parts.
But while she was 'catfishing' him, surely he would've told the 'new girl' things he didn't like about his current situation and she could've fixed them?

I'd say this is more **** on her part since she obviously wasn't so 'sweet and loving' offline, while he broke up with her before starting a relationship with someone else.
I don't know if he was neglecting her in some way or she's just a psycho that ****** herself over for no reason, but I'm more sympathetic towards the guy.

#19 - gruesomejack (01/08/2016) [-]

She started the deceit. She started the dis-loyalty when she started lying to her man about who she was. If she hadn't have done that, it may never have happened.