Check out OKC, and look at some of the girls. A lot of them complain about how they can't find a guy who's "insert positive adjective" but get bombarded by dozens of new guys an hour, yet won't go out of their way to start a conversation with a guy that they find.

tbh I want to try making an OCK profile soon, but it's ******** like this that makes me skeptical.

I've met a few really cool girls on there, but because there isn't anything forcing females to actually do any work (Like swiping to match with someone) it seems like they just kinda let their inboxes get flooded.