A lot of people feel the same way. There's even some comedian who made some joke about a similar subject. Forgot his name.
So yea, take that counterargument.
there are ofcourse people (close friends ) you always like and feel comfort . But i mean , each time for ex at the gym i say hi and talk a bit (it feels really great for some odd reason) but after a while i am not intrested anymore :/
(however , girls i like seem to be always intresting )
you are probably not an introvert. You are probably an extrovert who just likes being alone from time to time.
it is a big difference to be an introvert.
Well, I'm not really up to date on the criteria to be an introvert...
I like being by myself, just because it gives me a little peace and quiet.
I like company from time to time but most of the time I prefer to keep to myself.
And most of all: I despise crowded places.
a lot of people despise crowded places.
Being an introvert is the new bandwagon so a lot of people just try to jump on it, similar to the OCD bandwagon like 2 years ago.
You could really be an introvert, but there are so many who just wants an excuse for not being social.
I am good friends with an introvert, and i can tell. after 11th grade everybody split schools and he moved to a completely different place than everybody else who we had gone to school with for 10 years. i visited him this christmas and he didnt seem any different from what i have known him for being the years i went to school with him. Most people change because they hang out with new people, but he didnt hang out with anyone and have not been affected at all.
Whenever there is a party at our hometown i always invites him, but he gets way too bored and exhausted.
He is what i would call an Introvert. He has no problem spending massive time with a friend, but big groups become tiresome for him.
An introvert is the person who could be locked up in an appartment for 3 months without any human contact an not be drastically changed. This is considering they have internet, books, movies and whatnot.
3 months without any contact would probably be a little to steep for me, I could manage like 2 or 3 weeks tops. I do also get tiresome around big groups, but I always blamed that on my asthma. I don't mind parties from time to time though, and it's entirely dependent on which people are attending, whether or not I enjoy it.
I'm totally fine with being alone
I'm pretty sure i'm an introvert but that doesn't make me okay with being in complete solitary environment it messes you up if you don't talk with people for a really long time
so thats why I love the internet
I'm alone while still socializing
dogs can be good but a parrot can grow up with you and has the intelligence of a 4 year old child, hence why people call them feathered kids or fids for short.
anyone who is really into birds or has had birds for a while will use this reference, it's only common among bird people and vets, if you go to www.birdboard.com for example and read thru comments you'll see it used a ton, it's also used at bird shows as well.
nope, i know quite a few of those and they don't usually say that, i just wish i could remember what they did say... :\ , most reptiles aren't capable of bonding with people though to the level that dogs, cats, parrots etc will and parrots are on the top of the list as far as bonding with the owner goes, if they lose the person they bonded with they may even starve themselves to death or die and they prefer to interact with the whole family, the more you put into them the more you will get back, for proof of that look up alex the parrot.
If you own a parrot and haven`t taught it to say either ``where do we hide the bodies`` or ``Help, they`ve turned me into a parrot`` I kinda feel like your wasting everyone`s time
you try teaching a female eclectus tricks and words, they learn what they want, males on the other hand are subservient and will pretty much learn everything you want them to within reason, if not for that i'd have taught her to say that 5 years ago.
nova mimics my phone sounds and can say my phone number, she also does this to mess with people she sees holding a phone, she does the ring tones and the text received sounds, watching a teenager pick up their phone and go wtf is totally worth it.
For me personally, I don't mind being alone. It's being lonely that bothers me, and I think people should recognize the difference. Especially when someone tells me I "need" a bf/gf. No one needs one but having a companion to share interesting things with and someone you like spending time with would be great. But people suck in most cases, so there's that.
I am a great speaker, great with people, and have no problem talking to a stranger, but I seriously like to only have a few super close friends, and even if some other pretty cool dudes are hanging out with us too I feel kinda uncomfortable. Also sometimes I just need to be alone and chill by myself all night, whether it's just doing nothing or doing something nerdy like playing videogames and watching anime. I have no idea which I am.
Been there my internet friend and a long time. My gf though still tries to accept my weirdness, still stands beside me (but we were apart some time) and I feel that there is no way I can show her how much thankful I am. But I see that she does not have much will left. And I try hard to be more open and go out with her but it's exhausting for me. I feel that she will eventually leave and I don't think that there's a person out there which could cope with this for a longer time. I know that I am wrong but I just cannot believe it really and I don't know how to stop being like this...
Join the club! I get out of the house once or twice a month, and haven't even talked to anyone on my skype because I felt like a rabid caged animal. Two words hulu & netflix
Maybe it's not that you can't stand people, maybe it's just the people you've hung out with aren't the people you should hang out with. Maybe you need new friends. I don't know.