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IMO woman need to get over themselves..

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#3 - requiemofsins (04/10/2014) [+] (5 replies)
It's rare to find people on the internet who will actually post an opinion with logic behind it.
Solid post, itbumblebri.
#6 - Womens Study Major (04/10/2014) [+] (1 reply)
Just a couple of weeks ago a friend and I were walking home from getting food, laughing and talking.
It's about a 10 minute walk.
We were both wearing jeans, t-shirts, hoodies, boots, beanies and scarves.
Pretty freakin' covered.
We had three cars pull over and ask if we needed a ride.
One guy drove next to us for a good 300 yards after we had declined his offer hoping we'd change our mind.
But you know what, we were asking for a ride, apparently.
User avatar #8 to #6 - ljxjlos (04/10/2014) [-]
I ******* hate ride-culture nowadays. I hate how all men think woman are asking for a ride just by walking.
#23 - sierramistfourteen (04/11/2014) [-]
finally!  thank you for explaining this
finally! thank you for explaining this
User avatar #40 - residentevilfan (04/11/2014) [+] (2 replies)
When it comes down to it rape is just forced love
User avatar #41 to #40 - residentevilfan (04/11/2014) [-]
Also nice speech
User avatar #36 - imagnetsux ONLINE (04/11/2014) [+] (2 replies)
i think the same way of domestic violence. very often there are multiple untaken opportunities for both parties to dispel the situation.
User avatar #44 to #36 - timmywankenobi (04/11/2014) [-]
yes but physical domestic violence is usually initiated by the female spouse ,but usually if the male responds she takes the most damage (unless she has a weapon). The point is despite what most feminist domestic violence people will say men are not more violent then women , women start most of the fights (like 18% of the time with weapons) men just end more. I think part of the problem is we have chauvinist women who think they are hot **** because men don't hit back usually so the push them ,but then when they push too far they realize men were holding back and she is about as tough as a twig. at this point the feminists come along and abuse abuse how dare you reciprocate her violence ,she is just a stupid weak women who doesn't know any better ! but id she wins the fight then she is a strong independent women who put's men in their place with girl power and not an abusive cunt.

TLDR: our society is hell bent on excusing bad behavior by females no matter what.
#35 - kingofhazard (04/11/2014) [-]
Well 						*******					 said!
Well ******* said!
#13 - jilliebean (04/11/2014) [+] (4 replies)
I definitely agree that people can take precautions, but at the same time, I feel like it's a slippery slope.
I feel like if we concede that clothing has some role in rape, then it makes it easier to revert to the "she was asking for it" argument, or to say that some women deserve fair treatment more than others (for example, to say that a scantily-clad women deserves justice less than a more modestly dressed one). Even in your content, you debase such women by calling them "hoes."
Therefore, I think it's better to be more conservative for issues like these. Thoughts?
/rant
#11 - Womens Study Major (04/11/2014) [+] (4 replies)
Because someone has to provide the counter argument: While yes, modesty is a thing, it should be a woman's choice to be able to walk down the street with nothing on and not have a crime committed upon her, the same as it is a person's right to walk down the street flashing their wealth and not be mugged. And society's response should not be along the lines of blaming the victim for being a tempting target or "asking for it". It is a woman's right, or a man's right for that matter to dress however they like, no matter how much you don't like it and not have a crime committed upon them.
#15 to #12 - quiescat (04/11/2014) [-]
i find rape to be more nuanced then a out right mugging, so at no point think i am condoning rape, to be clear personally any one who walks down an ally and gets raped, that rapist at the very ** least** should be castrated, but rape cases are rarely that simple, or this would not be a complex issues.
i find most of the asking for it arguments are more often linked to "party rape", which i am not condoning. there is no manslaughter equivalent when two people rape each other that i know of, however two people with impaired judgement in the form of alcohol for example might just be that, in my opinion that has more in common with teenagers having sex, then a vicious act of violence. both are of debatable ability to consent. being a teenager then regretting sex with a chick once you have grown up does make a rape case. a girl who ****** a guy who she would not if sober can, the crux of the issue being proof, did she say yes while drunk, as in no legal ability to consent but still equatable to his yes while drunk. there are cases when this kind of rape is done violently, or with a clear disparity in how drunk( or drugged ) each subject was, in which case i think there should be mitigating factors in the same way intention is used for murder. added to the difficult nature of proving less violence rapes as most of the proof comes down to what each person say happened. that is the grey area in which shes asking for it gets born. lawyers are there to argue a story not find the truth, part of that story is what kind of person the victim might be sadly. past all that i think if your going to go into public to get that drunk without precaution, i may not condone what happens, i will however have a harder time feeling sorry for you, i feel the same for a drunk driver who wraps a car around a tree.
statutory rape can get grey as well
for other types of rape my motto is if it can be proven cut his dick off ( or her clit ) and kill them.
User avatar #9 - tittylovin (04/11/2014) [+] (2 replies)
>I am a woman
Couldn't go two sentences without attention whoring.
Shut up and die.
User avatar #14 to #9 - paradoxrocks ONLINE (04/11/2014) [-]
yeah tittylovin who points out she is in fact a woman,
we got to watch out for those attention whores
User avatar #4 - itsbumblebri (04/10/2014) [+] (4 replies)
I've just seen so many woman put out such a bad portrayal for the rest of us, and our thoughts on this. Just sharing my opinion on the situation, and honestly this is how alot of other woman I know feel about it.

Maybe it's just a Canadian thing lol
#1 - buccaneer (04/10/2014) [-]
I find this offensive
#55 - Womens Study Major (04/11/2014) [+] (5 replies)
I think it's pretty stupid when people compare rapist with thieves. Sure it's wrong to rob someone, but there could be an absolute need behind it. Maybe they're trying to feed themselves/family or they need to do it for whatever reason. Rapist don't have to have sex, sure they may get really horny but they won't die without getting any tail. Jerk yourself off or buy a fleshlight, you don't HAVE to have sex. People have to have money though.
It's like when people use the cross-walk allegory. We teach kids to look both ways before crossing the street, so rape victims could be at fault for not doing 'similar'. You can't rape someone by accident (usually,difficulty communicating is a different matter), but it is easy for someone not to see a person crossing the street or to be distracted while driving. I don't believe rape victims should be blamed for being raped. Sure they could be a bitch or whatever before the incident occurred, but that doesn't mean anyone deserves rape.
#49 - alstorp (04/11/2014) [-]
Still not asking to get beat up.
User avatar #43 - timmywankenobi (04/11/2014) [-]
I agree , I think the best way to reduce rape is to tell people how to properly take precautions to reduce risk , carrying pepper spray and not going to bad poorly lit parts of town or dive bars alone late at night and never excepting open drinks from strangers or leaving your drink in the open can reduce you risk by well over 250% that is substantial. Now will the rapist still rape that night ? probably, but will the victim be you if you take precautions ? very unlikely but not impossible.
User avatar #42 - itsbumblebri (04/11/2014) [-]
I just want to thank everyone for their opinions and supporting mine. I've been on FJ since I was a kid with my older sister. This is my first post and it's nice to see the FJ cmmunity first hand.
#34 - sirbrentcoe (04/11/2014) [+] (2 replies)
i like how they try to make it a political debate, too, where liberals say piss your pants and puke to avoid rape. and republicans say shoot them. how about learn to defend yourself, without having to sacrifice your dignity, or commit murder to avoid a violent crime? like you said, respect yourself, and learn defense.
User avatar #22 - forbesydemon (04/11/2014) [-]
The way i always look at it is:
You get taught not to steal, and how to prevent being stolen from.
You get taught not to attack others, and how to defend yourself from attack/avoid confrontation.
So why not teach not to rape, and teach how to prevent it.

There will ALWAYS be criminals who will do illegal things and going around with stupid signs saying "OMG MEN SHOULDN'T RAPE" or "SHE WASN'T ASKING FOR IT" ain't gonna solve **** . It ain't most men who rape, so don't be ******* stupid an learn how to avoid being targeted by criminals.
User avatar #19 - cppaulsson (04/11/2014) [+] (7 replies)
agreed, but the sick part is when courts goes by "she asked for it" and lower the scentence like a rape is not a really rapy rape if the victim didn't have enough clothes to begin with.
#18 - vondarkmoor ONLINE (04/11/2014) [-]
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