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itskennyandjosh (12/05/2015) [-] 
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**itskennyandjosh rolled image** If you're being serious, that's not good at all
**itskennyandjosh rolled image** If you're being serious, that's not good at all
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notwalkingwaffles (12/04/2015) [-] I never got that desire for one's partner to be a virgin.
I get the entire view of purity to have an "unspoiled" partner, but isn't that countered by having somebody who doesn't know how to do things in a way that makes things pleasant?
Isn't it countered by the responsibility of becoming a milestone in somebody's life, or just the idea of becoming a memorable but regretted decision?
I get the entire view of purity to have an "unspoiled" partner, but isn't that countered by having somebody who doesn't know how to do things in a way that makes things pleasant?
Isn't it countered by the responsibility of becoming a milestone in somebody's life, or just the idea of becoming a memorable but regretted decision?
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anythingoes (12/04/2015) [-]
Dealing with a virgin right now. It's been a slow process. Mainly because her previous partners probably watched too much porn, and thought rough housing a virgin was a good idea. And props to her ex for the "foreplay is such a childish thing" mentality, and for missing the hole so bad he managed to open a gash in her perineum
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cursedjester (12/04/2015) [-] "and for missing the hole so bad he managed to open a gash in her perineum"
... wha-what?
How does someone **** up like this?!
... wha-what?
How does someone **** up like this?!
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anythingoes (12/04/2015) [-]
I dunno. I was amazed too. I can only suppose through total lack of experience, a lot of determination, and not enough common sense to think that something was wrong. and that's the reason she's still a virgin, that was pretty damn painful and she kicked him out.
I can confirm that there is still a hymen in place too.
I can confirm that there is still a hymen in place too.
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WhattheNorris (12/05/2015) [-] how do you not line up properly and still decide to just ram your dick forward
did he think his dick was a heat-seeking missile
jesus ****
did he think his dick was a heat-seeking missile
jesus ****
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anythingoes (12/05/2015) [-]
Search perineum on google. Notice how it's not inside the genitalia?
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anythingoes (12/05/2015) [-]
I swear to christ, some of you guys have no knowledge of anatomy.
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anon (12/05/2015) [-] There's the anatomy version of "virginity" and there's the image definition of "virginity", which is not having sex with a person.
I wouldn't count a women coming up to me saying she's done Anal, titjobs, blowjobs, and handjobs a thousand times a "virgin" because she never has someone pound her pussy. Same goes with Lesbian/Gays. Sex is sex, and there goes your image of virginity.
Sorta wish they made different words for both so people don't get their jimmies ******* rustled all the time. fyi I don't care who is a virgin or not incase anyone is offended.
I wouldn't count a women coming up to me saying she's done Anal, titjobs, blowjobs, and handjobs a thousand times a "virgin" because she never has someone pound her pussy. Same goes with Lesbian/Gays. Sex is sex, and there goes your image of virginity.
Sorta wish they made different words for both so people don't get their jimmies ******* rustled all the time. fyi I don't care who is a virgin or not incase anyone is offended.
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anythingoes (12/05/2015) [-]
The main topic of this whole thing started on was "losing virginity is painful", so no, it's not open to debate about "kinds of virginity" you illiterate anon.
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gigabowzer ONLINE (12/05/2015) [-] **gigabowzer used "*roll picture*"**
**gigabowzer rolled image** I would think that if you two are really that close to the point of being married that you would know how to make things more enjoyable.
**gigabowzer rolled image** I would think that if you two are really that close to the point of being married that you would know how to make things more enjoyable.
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fffffffuuuuuuuuuuu (12/05/2015) [-] I never had that either, and I totally agree with everything you just said.
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elynichujy (12/05/2015) [-] I only prefer it cos I have a small dingledanger and suck in bed. So if I'm with someone who knows **** all about sex then I seem like a god in comparison.
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drifloon (12/05/2015) [-] Sure why not.
1. Oral. I know it's gross, we don't like giving it either, but it could very well be the difference between her having an orgasm and not. And I'm not talking lick lick done, I'm talking like 10 minutes. She will thank you! (You especially need this skill if you're a little lacking in other areas. A good technique is licking the alphabet.)
2. Don't ignore the rest of her body. She has erogenous zones all over her body. Kiss and suck these areas and she'll be purring like a cat: neck, inner thighs, lower back, breasts and the soles of her feet (if she's into that. Some people think it's gross)
3. A woman's orgasm is mostly mental, while a man's is mostly physical. This is why most women can't cum. DON'T LET HER GET BORED. Change positions, don't only focus on her vagina, and let her do some of the work.
4. Almost all of my girlfriends and I agree, we like it kinky. Many girls are too shy to say so, but most of us LOVE it. Maybe not like chains and whips but most of us like hair pulling, biting, being tied up, toys, and spanking. Ask your girl if that's something she'd be interested in.
5. Sex is gross. There's going to be weird sounds and sweat and fluids and lumps of fat and what have you. If you call attention to any of them, you're an asshole. That goes for both partners
Notice none of what I said was "PIV for 5 minutes, cum, fall asleep" That's bad sex.
Sorry I wrote a novel, but that's what helps for me. Hope it works for you too!
1. Oral. I know it's gross, we don't like giving it either, but it could very well be the difference between her having an orgasm and not. And I'm not talking lick lick done, I'm talking like 10 minutes. She will thank you! (You especially need this skill if you're a little lacking in other areas. A good technique is licking the alphabet.)
2. Don't ignore the rest of her body. She has erogenous zones all over her body. Kiss and suck these areas and she'll be purring like a cat: neck, inner thighs, lower back, breasts and the soles of her feet (if she's into that. Some people think it's gross)
3. A woman's orgasm is mostly mental, while a man's is mostly physical. This is why most women can't cum. DON'T LET HER GET BORED. Change positions, don't only focus on her vagina, and let her do some of the work.
4. Almost all of my girlfriends and I agree, we like it kinky. Many girls are too shy to say so, but most of us LOVE it. Maybe not like chains and whips but most of us like hair pulling, biting, being tied up, toys, and spanking. Ask your girl if that's something she'd be interested in.
5. Sex is gross. There's going to be weird sounds and sweat and fluids and lumps of fat and what have you. If you call attention to any of them, you're an asshole. That goes for both partners
Notice none of what I said was "PIV for 5 minutes, cum, fall asleep" That's bad sex.
Sorry I wrote a novel, but that's what helps for me. Hope it works for you too!
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insanefreak (12/05/2015) [-]
Wow wow wow wow WOW
A man's orgasm is mostly physical? Now I can't speak for anyone but my own personal self, but if I can distract myself from focusing on the act, I can delay the finish for a good while.
If I'm into it too much, too focused, too mentally occupied by the thing, I'll have emptied my miniature gauss rifle in seconds.
Other than that, my personal experience agrees with you.
A man's orgasm is mostly physical? Now I can't speak for anyone but my own personal self, but if I can distract myself from focusing on the act, I can delay the finish for a good while.
If I'm into it too much, too focused, too mentally occupied by the thing, I'll have emptied my miniature gauss rifle in seconds.
Other than that, my personal experience agrees with you.
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drifloon (12/05/2015) [-] Good for you, special snowflake. You just said yourself that if you distract yourself, you can hold off for a while, but eventually you'll probably come just from the feeling if it feels good enough. Most women can't though. No matter how good it feels if a woman isn't 100% invested in the sex, she wont be able to finish. She'll probably be nice and fake it just for you, though. ;D
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mravci (12/05/2015) [-]
nice tips.
Allthough don't know about the soles, never tried but don't ever forget the ears. I made a girl cum by only nibbling(do you cal it to nibble?) on her ears.
Always use your fingers while pleasuring her orally. and pulling hair is almost always appreciated. though i had a girl who wouldn't let me even touch her hair. you always have some weird people.
Allthough don't know about the soles, never tried but don't ever forget the ears. I made a girl cum by only nibbling(do you cal it to nibble?) on her ears.
Always use your fingers while pleasuring her orally. and pulling hair is almost always appreciated. though i had a girl who wouldn't let me even touch her hair. you always have some weird people.
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drifloon (12/05/2015) [-] That's true, ears do feel good. For me personally though it's the neck. I like my neck bit more than literally anything else. It's my favorite.
A little something I like to do with guys though is suck on the inner crook of their elbow. Women don't have an erogenous zone there but men do and most people don't know about it so it's always a pleasant surprise.
A little something I like to do with guys though is suck on the inner crook of their elbow. Women don't have an erogenous zone there but men do and most people don't know about it so it's always a pleasant surprise.
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mravci (12/05/2015) [-]
i should try that out, thanks for telling me.
Some of the girls don't trust me around their necks. slowly kissing the back of their neck is ok, but anywhere on the side and they think i'll give them a hickey, because I did once. just for the laughs. she bit my dick thoo, so we kinda evened out (kinda)
I like to choke the girls i'm doing. Just like out of nowhere, changes the whole atmosphere from playful to serious **** .
I **************** love tits, but then again i sometimes also kiss the cheeks and move up to the nape of the neck. So i'm not really sure if i'm a boobs or ass-man.
any other zones you'd like to tell a guy who loves to please?
Some of the girls don't trust me around their necks. slowly kissing the back of their neck is ok, but anywhere on the side and they think i'll give them a hickey, because I did once. just for the laughs. she bit my dick thoo, so we kinda evened out (kinda)
I like to choke the girls i'm doing. Just like out of nowhere, changes the whole atmosphere from playful to serious **** .
I **************** love tits, but then again i sometimes also kiss the cheeks and move up to the nape of the neck. So i'm not really sure if i'm a boobs or ass-man.
any other zones you'd like to tell a guy who loves to please?
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anon (12/05/2015) [-]
Pros to taking someone's virginity:
Purity/unspoiled
They haven't learned habits you hate from a previous partner
You can teach them, and for me at least, that's really hot
It means they care enough about you to make you their first.
Cons:
If you split up, you will always be their first and possibly be "that asshole", and no one wants that
teaching can be a hassle
Purity/unspoiled
They haven't learned habits you hate from a previous partner
You can teach them, and for me at least, that's really hot
It means they care enough about you to make you their first.
Cons:
If you split up, you will always be their first and possibly be "that asshole", and no one wants that
teaching can be a hassle
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anon (12/05/2015) [-]
Because you learn what feels good together, it becomes a bonding experience that brings you closer together. Sex isn't just about busting a nut, unless your a retard who cant' think with any thing but his dick. Just because your first time isn't as mind blowing as you think it should be doesn't' mean they aren't the right person for you maybe it doesn't get better till the twentieth time, but eventually you learn what buttons to press to make them gush and beg for more. That's part of love, I know you probably can't understand the difference between love and lust, but hey, that's not your fault, you were just raised improperly.
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moldybreadcrumb (12/05/2015) [-] Idk, it's a very "special" thing to me.
Me, i'm not going to lose my virginity to someone unless i'm very certain they're the one i want to spend the rest of my life with.
I've been in long-term relationships beyond 2 years before, and despite loving them to death, i never truly felt comfortable letting them take my virginity, and as such I still have it.
I'm not going to wait until marriage, no. Just until i meet the man i feel positive i want to spend my life with.
And I'm aware that even then something may change in me or him and we may split up, but even then, i can say that the moment i shared was truly special; and, even though there's that chance we may split, he would always remain as one-of-a-kind to me.
Me, i'm not going to lose my virginity to someone unless i'm very certain they're the one i want to spend the rest of my life with.
I've been in long-term relationships beyond 2 years before, and despite loving them to death, i never truly felt comfortable letting them take my virginity, and as such I still have it.
I'm not going to wait until marriage, no. Just until i meet the man i feel positive i want to spend my life with.
And I'm aware that even then something may change in me or him and we may split up, but even then, i can say that the moment i shared was truly special; and, even though there's that chance we may split, he would always remain as one-of-a-kind to me.
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thepizzadevourer (12/05/2015) [-] >literally no difference
>having the discipline and self-control to wait for someone you care about, vs. putting out for the first person that catches your fancy
stay stupid, anon
>having the discipline and self-control to wait for someone you care about, vs. putting out for the first person that catches your fancy
stay stupid, anon
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internetexplain (12/05/2015) [-] anon , I don't want to bother you with science so I'll keep it simple.
If you never had sex , you will literally smell like Virgin , and that is unattractive.
If you never had sex , you will literally smell like Virgin , and that is unattractive.
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insanefreak (12/05/2015) [-]
Well, it depends. If both of you share each first time with one another, then the emotional bonus of getting to figure each other out beats having an experienced partner (or so I believe. I belong to the first category). Also, you get to get to know each other body really well if you stay with that person.
So if both of you are first timers and manage to stick together, I think it's more enjoyable emotionally and physically in the long run. Could be wrong though. Like I said, that's the only side I know of.
So if both of you are first timers and manage to stick together, I think it's more enjoyable emotionally and physically in the long run. Could be wrong though. Like I said, that's the only side I know of.
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landartheconqueror (12/05/2015) [-] for me, it's the idea that sex is made just that more special, becoming something beautiful and exciting that's shared exclusively between two people. so that your partner is the only one who's ever been that intimate with you, and vice versa. it gives it a whole new level of value
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blademontane (12/05/2015) [-] I'd rather have an inexperienced girlfriend, but an experienced FWB. If I'm going out with someone, it's not purely for sex.
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thepizzadevourer (12/05/2015) [-] Well . . .
I kinda figure if we both have our first times together, then it's only bettering my chances that I won't be a complete dissapointment
I kinda figure if we both have our first times together, then it's only bettering my chances that I won't be a complete dissapointment
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wanpanman ONLINE (12/05/2015) [-] I wanted to lose my virginity at the same time as whatever respective partner i was with at the time. I did that and now that relationship is toast i dont mind now. I dunno why people care if they aren't virgins either but i cared about losing mine to someone who wasn't...
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concetrationcamp (12/05/2015) [-] **concetrationcamp used "*roll picture*"**
**concetrationcamp rolled image** this is why some people buy new cars and the others are happy with used ones
**concetrationcamp rolled image** this is why some people buy new cars and the others are happy with used ones
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peanutsaurusrex (12/05/2015) [-] Well think of it this way: switch it around
Lets say you're the virgin and have no idea what you're doing, all you know is you put the thing in the thing and slide back and forth. Would you rather have someone whos fluent in sex teach you (Or possibly embarrass you for your lack of experience) or someone whos in the same boat as you?
Either that or if you're not the virgin maybe you want to be the teacher, some people like it when they're in control of what happens in the bed.
Lets say you're the virgin and have no idea what you're doing, all you know is you put the thing in the thing and slide back and forth. Would you rather have someone whos fluent in sex teach you (Or possibly embarrass you for your lack of experience) or someone whos in the same boat as you?
Either that or if you're not the virgin maybe you want to be the teacher, some people like it when they're in control of what happens in the bed.
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notwalkingwaffles (12/05/2015) [-] I would prefer to lose my virginity to somebody who knew what they were doing (and so I did - not a prostitute btw).
But the teaching thing seems to be a general trait among the responses.
But the teaching thing seems to be a general trait among the responses.
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enlightednatzie (12/05/2015) [-] I want to have sex with a more experienced woman if you catch my drift...
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infinitereaper (12/05/2015) [-] There are so many god damned reasons.
By all means marry a slut, but good luck having that work out for you.
Divorce rate is 50% by the way.
By all means marry a slut, but good luck having that work out for you.
Divorce rate is 50% by the way.
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infinitereaper (12/05/2015) [-] Let's exercise a little English comprehension and basic logic skills.
OP said:
"I don't understand why anyone would want a virgin" (aka my point of view is right and anything else is wrong)
"Isn't a lack of experience unpleasant?" (aka all that matters is experience in sex)
According to OP all that matters is that the sex is good because of experience, and who has more experience than a slut? By OP's logic sluts are the best because they have the most experiences.
There are absolutely no other factors at work.
Absolutely no reason you'd want a virgin.
Which of course is total ********* .
There are actually quite a lot of reasons. And the argument that "experience" is all that matters is ignorant and retarded.
OP said:
"I don't understand why anyone would want a virgin" (aka my point of view is right and anything else is wrong)
"Isn't a lack of experience unpleasant?" (aka all that matters is experience in sex)
According to OP all that matters is that the sex is good because of experience, and who has more experience than a slut? By OP's logic sluts are the best because they have the most experiences.
There are absolutely no other factors at work.
Absolutely no reason you'd want a virgin.
Which of course is total ********* .
There are actually quite a lot of reasons. And the argument that "experience" is all that matters is ignorant and retarded.
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dreygur (12/05/2015) [-] Say what now? How the **** do you interpret "I don't understand X" as "I think X is objectively wrong"? He's basically just saying that he doesn't understand why it bothers some so much, never did he imply that it's wrong to have preferences. He even literally said that he understands why people have them.
And "Isn't a lack of experience unpleasant?" is literally just a question. He could be asking people who have experienced it before to be sure whether or not his assumptions are correct, because he most likely hasn't experienced it personally.
According to OP, he's confused as to why it's such a fuss for people and he'e seeking answers. Obviously there is a tone of bias in there, but that's a nobrainer when he's only experienced one of the two different packages, if he's even had sex at all.
Instead of just giving objective reasons, you're basically demonizing women who may have had sex once in their lifetime, when the term "slut" is supposed to be used when a girl/women has careless sex with anybody for the sake of it, not just as a buzzword against those who simply aren't virgins anymore.
Also, you're implying that OP is being self-righteous in his comment, while you're closing off yours with "Giving reasons for your preferences is ignorant and retarded."
And "Isn't a lack of experience unpleasant?" is literally just a question. He could be asking people who have experienced it before to be sure whether or not his assumptions are correct, because he most likely hasn't experienced it personally.
According to OP, he's confused as to why it's such a fuss for people and he'e seeking answers. Obviously there is a tone of bias in there, but that's a nobrainer when he's only experienced one of the two different packages, if he's even had sex at all.
Instead of just giving objective reasons, you're basically demonizing women who may have had sex once in their lifetime, when the term "slut" is supposed to be used when a girl/women has careless sex with anybody for the sake of it, not just as a buzzword against those who simply aren't virgins anymore.
Also, you're implying that OP is being self-righteous in his comment, while you're closing off yours with "Giving reasons for your preferences is ignorant and retarded."
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infinitereaper (12/05/2015) [-] OP is just manipulating people and touting the politically correct held view.
I've seen it time and time and it's always the same **** .
Everything he's written is written as a persuasive argument, to get people to agree and circlejerk with those who agree.
That's why there isn't even room for discussion, there is no room for answers, no room for opposing views, much like your responses to me. Because OP and this thread doesn't want the opposing view or to even consider new ideas.
It's just a circlejerk, made up mostly of whiteknights who would do anything to get laid, women who don't want to feel bad about themselves, and very few who just came to that conclusion.
I didn't even say that non virgins automatically equaled sluts, what I said, and just explained to you, is that by his bent logic that sluts are vastly preferable to virgins because of "muh experience". But apparently you aren't bright enough to understand the distinction.
Only 50% of marriages survive, 70% of divorces are initiated by women, and the more partners a woman has the more likely she is to cheat.
In this age of femnism and female empowerment encouraging young girls to ride the cock carousal and that sex itself is meaningless, all I'm saying is "good luck" not valuing virginity for what it ought to be worth.
Seriously, good luck.
All I know is that I ain't getting cucked.
I've seen it time and time and it's always the same **** .
Everything he's written is written as a persuasive argument, to get people to agree and circlejerk with those who agree.
That's why there isn't even room for discussion, there is no room for answers, no room for opposing views, much like your responses to me. Because OP and this thread doesn't want the opposing view or to even consider new ideas.
It's just a circlejerk, made up mostly of whiteknights who would do anything to get laid, women who don't want to feel bad about themselves, and very few who just came to that conclusion.
I didn't even say that non virgins automatically equaled sluts, what I said, and just explained to you, is that by his bent logic that sluts are vastly preferable to virgins because of "muh experience". But apparently you aren't bright enough to understand the distinction.
Only 50% of marriages survive, 70% of divorces are initiated by women, and the more partners a woman has the more likely she is to cheat.
In this age of femnism and female empowerment encouraging young girls to ride the cock carousal and that sex itself is meaningless, all I'm saying is "good luck" not valuing virginity for what it ought to be worth.
Seriously, good luck.
All I know is that I ain't getting cucked.
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holmesc (12/05/2015) [-] "Only 50% of marriages survive, 70% of divorces are initiated by women, and the more partners a woman has the more likely she is to cheat.
In this age of femnism and female empowerment encouraging young girls to ride the cock carousal and that sex itself is meaningless, all I'm saying is "good luck" not valuing virginity for what it ought to be worth. "
I thought the day would never come to see someone with enough balls to say this.
In this age of femnism and female empowerment encouraging young girls to ride the cock carousal and that sex itself is meaningless, all I'm saying is "good luck" not valuing virginity for what it ought to be worth. "
I thought the day would never come to see someone with enough balls to say this.
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dreygur (12/05/2015) [-] Or you're basically manipulating your own view and making a dozen assumptions based on it. I know I'm making quite a few myself, but I'm actually trying to be on the neutral ground here.
You think there's no room for opposing views, but in actuality, you're the one who doesn't want to listen to any opposing views and are just condescending with how you view things.
Or it's for people who don't mind either way. Now you're using "whiteknight" as a buzzword as well when it can easily have nothing to do with "muh mlady"
You instantly assumed that he wanted to date sluts just because he didn't mind non-virgins. You didn't seem to realize there's any middle ground there. Of course you think that OP only wants to date sluts, because you've twisted his points in your own mind.
That wouldn't surprise me. Some guys are desperate for relationships and want to take anything instead of waiting for someone they can truly trust. This can be blamed on feminism or whatever, but also on how much relationship and sex is emphasized in today's society instead of telling people they should keep their lives together, with a partner or not.
Also, to get cucked you need to get a girlfriend in the first place.
You think there's no room for opposing views, but in actuality, you're the one who doesn't want to listen to any opposing views and are just condescending with how you view things.
Or it's for people who don't mind either way. Now you're using "whiteknight" as a buzzword as well when it can easily have nothing to do with "muh mlady"
You instantly assumed that he wanted to date sluts just because he didn't mind non-virgins. You didn't seem to realize there's any middle ground there. Of course you think that OP only wants to date sluts, because you've twisted his points in your own mind.
That wouldn't surprise me. Some guys are desperate for relationships and want to take anything instead of waiting for someone they can truly trust. This can be blamed on feminism or whatever, but also on how much relationship and sex is emphasized in today's society instead of telling people they should keep their lives together, with a partner or not.
Also, to get cucked you need to get a girlfriend in the first place.
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infinitereaper (12/05/2015) [-] I'm just trying to knock sense into people. No I'm using whiteknight by it's definition. And this site is, hell it's literal, full of white youngins who haven't been hit with reality yet. Especially with how bitchy Western Women have become.
I don't care about neutral, or good, or bad, or whats politically correct, just what's actually correct. Virgins girls are valuable. Especially since the first sexual experiences releases a ******** of powerful chemicals and hormones that promote bonding.
That facet of biology is the main reason that many girls always end up going back to or stuck with that "first terrible boyfriend". Because the first bond is the strongest.
There are plenty of other reasons as well.
I don't care about neutral, or good, or bad, or whats politically correct, just what's actually correct. Virgins girls are valuable. Especially since the first sexual experiences releases a ******** of powerful chemicals and hormones that promote bonding.
That facet of biology is the main reason that many girls always end up going back to or stuck with that "first terrible boyfriend". Because the first bond is the strongest.
There are plenty of other reasons as well.
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boarderlinegreat (12/04/2015) [-] Nice thoughts IMO but in the grand scheme of things, to heavy to think about. It's not about life or death...
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notwalkingwaffles (12/04/2015) [-] Nope, but losing your virginity is, during your teenage years, a rather big thing, and if you keep it until you're an actual adult, it's probably because it's quite important to you.
Either way, that person is probably going to go into the process of sexing you thinking it's something special - that you're something special, and when you eventually break up, you're still going to be the one with whom she thought it would matter, and you'll be nothing more than a bad memory.
Either way, that person is probably going to go into the process of sexing you thinking it's something special - that you're something special, and when you eventually break up, you're still going to be the one with whom she thought it would matter, and you'll be nothing more than a bad memory.
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erotictentacle ONLINE (12/05/2015) [-] Well, someone HAS to **** a virgin.
I lost my virginity to a rather experienced girl, which i think is the best.
If a virgin does it with an experienced person, it is much more enjoyable and you learn tons of things important for later sex
I lost my virginity to a rather experienced girl, which i think is the best.
If a virgin does it with an experienced person, it is much more enjoyable and you learn tons of things important for later sex
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anon (12/05/2015) [-]
Wish people would forget this myth.
A woman's first time is not supposed to hurt, the hymen tearing may be unpleasant for a moment but that is all.
There are loads of reasons for it to hurt from her being nervous and her vagina not opening, to her vagina not producing enough lube, possibly also due to nervousness or maybe just the dude is being an asshole and ramming it in when she's not ready.
There is no reason for ''It hurts because first time''.
A woman's first time is not supposed to hurt, the hymen tearing may be unpleasant for a moment but that is all.
There are loads of reasons for it to hurt from her being nervous and her vagina not opening, to her vagina not producing enough lube, possibly also due to nervousness or maybe just the dude is being an asshole and ramming it in when she's not ready.
There is no reason for ''It hurts because first time''.
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cantdecideausernam ONLINE (12/05/2015) [-] **cantdecideausernam used "*roll picture*"**
**cantdecideausernam rolled image**true but difference of correlation and causation and underlying factors and all.
**cantdecideausernam rolled image**true but difference of correlation and causation and underlying factors and all.
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cantdecideausernam ONLINE (12/05/2015) [-]
umm sorry for the reply that comment wasn't supposed to be for you. Honestly don't know how I messed that up.
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anon (12/05/2015) [-]
Well, yeah. Also, nothing says a virgin even has a hymen. If they do a lot of sports or horseback riding they are very likely to not have it. Also, the obsession with virginity is religious retardness at it finest. Virgins are no fun, it takes time and practice to get good at ******* .
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msamnesia (12/05/2015) [-]
honestly it hurts like a ************ for the first input, at least for me, then after not moving for a few seconds and going slow--you get used to it and it stops hurting. if sex hurts the ENTIRE TIME, there's something seriously wrong medically.
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gigabowzer ONLINE (12/05/2015) [-] **gigabowzer used "*roll picture*"**
**gigabowzer rolled image** People keep saying that having non-marital sex before hand will improve the marriages you have because you will have more experienced sex, which I find to be bull. If anything, I would find that having sex with someone who has had sex with me only is a lot more intimate because "this person has experienced this intimacy with me only, therefore this is an experience between us and only us." It makes the marriage more unique of an experience. It seems more personal when sex is saved for the person you marry. I don't care for experience, I care for the intimacy.
**gigabowzer rolled image** People keep saying that having non-marital sex before hand will improve the marriages you have because you will have more experienced sex, which I find to be bull. If anything, I would find that having sex with someone who has had sex with me only is a lot more intimate because "this person has experienced this intimacy with me only, therefore this is an experience between us and only us." It makes the marriage more unique of an experience. It seems more personal when sex is saved for the person you marry. I don't care for experience, I care for the intimacy.
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martiortiftw ONLINE (12/05/2015) [-] www.youtube.com/watch?v=U-SRcCGsBbc this but with less clothes and more penetration
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gigabowzer ONLINE (12/05/2015) [-]
tbh, I don't see the problem. They should be able to enjoy themselves and discover how it's done between each other. It is more intimate that way.
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tsukaza (12/05/2015) [-]
I find that stereotype funny In the "you're doing it wrong" way .... despite something like that happening one of my times too.... Looked like it hurt
