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I'm Sorry Guys

 
Hello FJ,

I am just the average user that has done nothing for the last 4 years, just thumb up or down while enjoying my moments with you. I have not posted any memorable posts or anything, the first time I actually tried was when Admin made it that to be level 10 to thumb up. But being with you guys has been the most rewarding experience. I laughed, I feel, I did it all with you guys.I started going out with this beautiful girl, in which I thought things would just be normal. But I first had sex about 3 weeks ago, but I still remembered to go with you guys, trying to break that rule of "once you get laid you never come back."

Anyways, her period did not come as expected this month. I'm only 17, still in HS, but I guess I'll have to adapt to this new lifestyle if it does come down to that.

I haven't told anyone yet, so I'm scared ******** right now. It was a stupid moment for me but I'll keep you guys updated in case anything happens.

I guess this is how my new life begins. Thank you all for making me laugh when I needed it and for making me realize that anyone can turn human. Stay fabulous anons.
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#35 - blahred [OP](07/28/2014) [+] (11 replies)
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Me and my gf decided to buy a pregnancy test just to get rid of the intense feeling. If you're of religion, I ask for prayers, if not, then I ask for the best of luck.
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User avatar #6 - srhkid (07/28/2014) [-]
You goin be okay lil ***** . You got this
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User avatar #34 - thedarkassassin (07/28/2014) [-]
I hope everything turns out okay for you, dude.
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User avatar #3 - srhkid (07/28/2014) [-]
Dont be silly, wrap your willy
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User avatar #2 - srhkid (07/28/2014) [-]
Dont be a fool, wrap your tool
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User avatar #1 - srhkid (07/28/2014) [-]
Cover the hammer before you slam her
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#11 - sedativechunk (07/28/2014) [-]
Apart from all the joke comments I have to be the serious one. I think you ****** up pretty bad, OP. I guess it's a little too late to say use protection. For now I think you should wait it out and see if she is actually pregnant or not. If so, any hopes/aspirations you had of college, a career, and a personal life are going to get flushed down the toilet if you have to take on the burden of raising a kid at 17. You're WAY too young for that **** . I don't think you have any idea what the real world and reality is like, what it cost to live on your own nonetheless have a child to raise. From this point on, I think you have a limited # of choices: 1) Ask her to get an abortion or at least adopt. I know people may grind me for it but I think you are both way too young to raise a kid and you are giving up the greatest years of your life to raise a kid if you go through with it. Freedom, career choices, lifestyle, you can't have it really when you have a kid so young. 2) Man up. Maybe you are OK with your choices and you want to come through for this girl and the kid. But it sound to me like you barely know this chick and you may not want to be married to her. Some people can come through with this choice and still have a good life to live. It is the RIGHT thing to do morally but sometimes it's not good for your own life. 3) Make a run for it. Honestly, if I were in your shoes and I accidentally knocked a girl up, I think I may make a run for it if she doesn't agree to abortion/adoption. I don't want any kids yet and I'm 24. Move across country, get a cheap job/apartment and start a new life elsewhere. Change your name if you have to (not joking). My vote, focus on your own life/career, make a run for it if you have to. .gif completely unrelated. Good luck, you'll need it.
Apart from all the joke comments I have to be the serious one. I think you ****** up pretty bad, OP. I guess it's a little too late to say use protection. For now I think you should wait it out and see if she is actually pregnant or not. If so, any hopes/aspirations you had of college, a career, and a personal life are going to get flushed down the toilet if you have to take on the burden of raising a kid at 17. You're WAY too young for that **** . I don't think you have any idea what the real world and reality is like, what it cost to live on your own nonetheless have a child to raise.

From this point on, I think you have a limited # of choices:
1) Ask her to get an abortion or at least adopt. I know people may grind me for it but I think you are both way too young to raise a kid and you are giving up the greatest years of your life to raise a kid if you go through with it. Freedom, career choices, lifestyle, you can't have it really when you have a kid so young.
2) Man up. Maybe you are OK with your choices and you want to come through for this girl and the kid. But it sound to me like you barely know this chick and you may not want to be married to her. Some people can come through with this choice and still have a good life to live. It is the RIGHT thing to do morally but sometimes it's not good for your own life.
3) Make a run for it. Honestly, if I were in your shoes and I accidentally knocked a girl up, I think I may make a run for it if she doesn't agree to abortion/adoption. I don't want any kids yet and I'm 24. Move across country, get a cheap job/apartment and start a new life elsewhere. Change your name if you have to (not joking).

My vote, focus on your own life/career, make a run for it if you have to. .gif completely unrelated. Good luck, you'll need it.
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#12 to #11 - blahred [OP](07/28/2014) [-]
Yeah, we used protection twice (we ****** 4 times so far) but only once before her period deadline, and I used a condom, but there still is the possibility that it might have broken or some **** . We've been going out for 7 1/2 months, I know it's still relatively new but I don't think I can leave her just like that. My family are above middle class, but hers has just come to the USA 4 years ago from Vietnam (Mine came 7 years ago from Peru).
I aspired to be an Air Force General but I guess I can throw that away if I have to. I know it will be difficult, and probably impossible, but I'm sure I can pull it off. I have to.
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#28 - anon (07/28/2014) [-]
life is weird. i have been with 22 girls and magically not one is pregnant by me. the quickest way to poverty is unplanned brats. best wishes tho i will be taking care of all the single girls for ya bro.
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#22 - anon (07/28/2014) [-]
go get a job General.
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#24 to #22 - blahred [OP](07/28/2014) [-]
Already applying for Fry's Electronics
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#26 to #24 - anon (07/28/2014) [-]
you need to apply like a rabid dog. behave like a General. he would not give up until he is pulling in the heavy dough. your life no longer belongs to you, you have new innocent responsibilities whose daily development depends on you. that baby deserves your finest efforts. be a man and be content only when you are giving 100%.
for all you know that child is destined to grow up and cure cancer. make sure he or she has a fantastic father figure that he will brag about forever.
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User avatar #5 - hashtronaut (07/28/2014) [-]
the title to this really shoulda been Doesnt Matter Had Sex, but then i'da probably bitched about you using the same title I recently used for some jizz on some chicks pants.

anyway, good luck.
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User avatar #4 - srhkid (07/28/2014) [-]
Good luck chuck, hope you had a nice **** . Enoy the kid should have hit and skid
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#7 to #4 - blahred [OP](07/28/2014) [-]
Oh I did pulled out. But I know about precum, and seeing how I never masturbated before in my life, I found it hard to control myself, but I'm sure I pulled out.
The problem is that her period comes on the 23 and she still hasn't had it.
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#37 to #7 - anon (07/28/2014) [-]
pulling out isn't save anticonception method as you soon gonna find out for yourself next time just buy a condom
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User avatar #8 to #7 - srhkid (07/28/2014) [-]
Wha.... How have you never jerked it?
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#9 to #8 - blahred [OP](07/28/2014) [-]
Parents are pastors
EVERY. SINGLE. UNCLE. as well

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#30 to #9 - handofdestiny (07/28/2014) [-]
oh my.. a common mistake.. as an advanced wanker I can tell you that you should have done it it before having sex.. that was really bad mistake because if you don't know yourself, you can't have sex with a pull out method for no way... by the way.. my first girlfriend sometimes had her period really really late.. once it was 7 days and I was freaking out too.. so maybe there is a chance it is not like you think.. but buy a birth control in 10 days to be more sure..
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User avatar #17 to #9 - beren (07/28/2014) [-]
Consider yourself blessed that your family is full of pastors.

Trust me, nobody is a saint, and if they are anything like what a pastor should be, they will be well aware of the pressure you face as a teenage guy, and much more forgiving and helpful than many parents would be. (At least, after the initial shock...)

How long have you known her?
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#20 to #17 - blahred [OP](07/28/2014) [-]
Yeah, I won't talk **** on my family on that matter, they are really helpful only when you find yourself in real deep **** .

I've known her for a year and been going out for 7 1/2 months.
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User avatar #21 to #19 - beren (07/28/2014) [-]
Hm. If you don't mind my asking, are you both Christians as well?
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#23 to #21 - blahred [OP](07/28/2014) [-]
It's good.
I'm Christian but my faith has been a little shaky lately (I still believe in God though), although I kinda expected that from teenage years. She's Catholic but doesn't follow all those Catholic traditions, she only believes in God and JC as His son.

I don't feel like having theological debates though, so if we could tone that down a bit it would be appreciated.
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User avatar #25 to #23 - beren (07/28/2014) [-]
Haha. Oh, no debates here I'm just wondering because I'm a Christian also. My wife and I (we're 22, almost 23, now) had some similar scares when we were dating in our teenage years. (Never actually had sex, but we got a little too close for comfort at times, and she was a couple days late several times.)

Anyway, I just want to encourage you to not freak out about this. Even if it comes to pregnancy, it sounds like you have a pretty great support system in place. And even though you two have only known each other for a year, I want to reassure you that there is no relationship difference that can't be overcome if you two are both believers. Sharing the same basic, fundamental perspective on life (and especially if that perspective is Christian), means so, so much for a relationship.

Also, I saw from another comment that you wanted to join the Air Force. If anything, that is a dream that you probably wouldn't have to give up on if you have a kid. The military does a heck of a lot for supporting its members. I know of plenty of young guys straight out of high school who are in the military, and some of whom have kids.
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#27 to #25 - blahred [OP](07/28/2014) [-]
I will, if anything I think this is the first time I prayed intensely after a few years. I'm hoping we can both convert though, so that'll be a plus. I'm trying to think of a back up plan either way.
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User avatar #29 to #27 - beren (07/28/2014) [-]
Well, that's always good. Moments like this are always good reminders of how important our faith is. I know the teenage years are rough on a lot of people's faith, but I think a lot of the time that is because people associate their faith with not only childhood, but childishness. The fact is that there's a lot more to it than what we learn in Sunday School.

I'd hate to just sound like another parental voice to you, since I'm sure you get this a lot, but never underestimate how important it is to trust God, even if, if you do eventually have a kid, you feel like He failed to answer your prayer. If you are going to have a kid, do it with the right perspective from the very beginning. Sure, it's a little scary for you at the moment, but the fact is that you and your girl are making a human being. Someone who's going to reflect both of you, and share all sorts of awesome moments with you.

Life is what we make of it. Bringing joy to others' lives, especially that of your own girlfriend or child, will make you happier at the end of the day than pretty much anything else. And it doesn't take much financially (or whatever else-ly) to do that.

Anyway, sorry to rant... But just hang in there, man. I'd love to talk to you about stuff or just listen if you need someone to do that.
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#31 to #29 - blahred [OP](07/28/2014) [-]
Thanks a lot. It really does mean a lot to me
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User avatar #32 to #31 - beren (07/28/2014) [-]
I'm glad it helps... I remember that sinking feeling in your stomach. It's horrifying. Makes you think about doing some things that you never would have considered otherwise.

Seriously, don't hesitate to send me a message if you're freaking out about it, and please keep me/us updated regardless!
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#33 to #32 - blahred [OP](07/28/2014) [-]
Thanks. I will for sure
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User avatar #10 to #9 - srhkid (07/28/2014) [-]
Oh **** .. im sorry man.. i hope everything works out for ya. Keep up posted and just say its not yours. (he he)
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#13 to #10 - blahred [OP](07/28/2014) [-]
I would...

But I was her first bf and her first time having sex
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User avatar #14 to #13 - srhkid (07/28/2014) [-]
:/ give her tummy a nice swift kick?
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#16 to #14 - blahred [OP](07/28/2014) [-]
I wouldn't want to either
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#15 to #14 - blahred [OP](07/28/2014) [-]
I thought of that actually but then I don't think I have the courage to do that...
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User avatar #18 to #15 - srhkid (07/28/2014) [-]
Dude, if you do end up raising the kid, i have no doubt you will be an awesome dad, who knows. You may just end up getting lucky. Congrats on the sex tho
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User avatar #36 - tittylovin (07/28/2014) [-]
blah blah blah i don't care post funny or interesting and leave
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#44 - anon (07/29/2014) [-]
Ummm get an abortion. Don't see the big deal here.
 
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