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hell yeah

I changed "no" in my mom' s
phone to "hell yeah"
l ---no Verizon an 'feil' are PM new -
i 4 Messages Mom Contact
I' m so disappointed to have you as
HEM.
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Submitted: 12/16/2015
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User avatar #28 - theguyishere (12/17/2015) [-]
Son: Do you really mean that?
Mom: hell yeah!

Son now has to decide if she said no or really is disappointed in him.
#69 to #28 - anon (12/17/2015) [-]
she's disappointed, there is no need for the exclamation point.
User avatar #9 - fluttergrey (12/17/2015) [-]
This is an acceptable answer, by my tastes.
#5 - nosleep (12/17/2015) [-]
#3 - jjvoodoo (12/16/2015) [-]
User avatar #91 to #3 - rockstarjack (12/24/2015) [-]
someone wanna edit this gif so it has flashing 'REKT' on it....?
#82 to #3 - jjvoodoo (12/17/2015) [-]
so many thumbs
#51 to #3 - masterboll (12/17/2015) [-]
>MFW mum needs to chill tf out with a response like that
#11 - seamusmcmaximus (12/17/2015) [-]
Damn, bitch! I never said you weren't invited!
User avatar #8 - sakagamitomoyo (12/17/2015) [-]
This is adequate, this pleases me
User avatar #55 to #8 - cokayne (12/17/2015) [-]
Is that you, Ron Swanson?
#6 - finishhimlarry (12/17/2015) [-]
this is good. I like it.
#23 - kiratheunholy (12/17/2015) [-]
Alright, this is gonna be a pretty big rant. As a disclaimer I had a really supportive mom, so this rant doesn't represent me, but rather the friends I've known who have had bad experiences with disapproving parents.

When I see **** like this it only reaffirms my belief that there are really all types of parents. When you're a kid there's no 100% correct way to please them in this society.

I mean everybody remember that 4chan post where the guy said he took his dad's car out and slept in it in the park so that his dad would feel proud of him for having friends and being social? That was a heart-breaker but then you see this post right here where because her son is being social and wants to throw a party she feels compelled to tell him he's a disappointment. **** hurts man.

I've had friends who have had parents not care about them at all, but instead care about their grades in school. This one guy I knew had his mom barely talk to him for days, but if his grades dropped a few points he'd not hear the end of it until he promised to fix them. I feel his mom was trying to care... but didn't know how.

Another guy's dad I knew didn't care about anything as long as he wasn't on the computer. He really liked being on the computer and considered it an escape. His dad wouldn't let him on for more than a few hours at a time though and if he got off he'd just sit in his room doing nothing. It's not like the dad thought it'd rot his brain or anything though, he wasn't overprotective of his schooling or grades or anything to do with education, just his computer... felt weird.

The gist of it is that I see all these types of parents and I really can't help but feel some people get a raw deal. You might be an over-achieved born into a family where athletics are praised. Or perhaps you're an introvert born into a family where everybody is expected to be a social butterfly. There's so many parents that I feel just look for the wrong things in their children. I think their heart is usually in the right place, but I can't help but feel if parents would just support their children's endeavors Within reason we'd have a much happier and well-adjusted society.

Of course saying all that I do believe it only applies to a minority of parents, but damn the people who I've seen affected by it... it really just feels bad man.

TL;DR - This post hit me hard, I've seen too many great people ruined by bad parenting.
#34 to #23 - politicalmiddle (12/17/2015) [-]
As a parent myself I will peacefully disagree with you. One of the key elements of parenting is instilling your child with a moral code. If one of my children were to throw a party I am well aware that alcohol and illegal substances would be present; unless my son throws lame parties. I agree that that you should support your childs endeavors however you should also be disappointed to desensitize them to the feeling of failure that life will inevitably hit them with at some point. Otherwise at the first sign of failing they will either breakdown or go to tumblr for support like so many spineless whiny sensitive people do *Shivers* I don't want that for my kids.
User avatar #36 to #34 - kiratheunholy (12/17/2015) [-]
My main point if you didn't get it by reading the entire rant was that some parents try to project themselves onto their children.

Let's forget about the partying for one second.

An intellectual being pushed down by an athletic father

Vice-versa. Parents instilling moral codes is good, but only if they're objectively moral and not biased.
User avatar #35 to #34 - kiratheunholy (12/17/2015) [-]
It's like you stopped reading my post halfway through. Like.. really? This wasn't all about partying and booze you know...
User avatar #49 to #34 - ImmortalBaconEater (12/17/2015) [-]
You should really learn to listen to what someone is saying rather than arguing against what you expect them to say. THAT is an important part of parenting.
#62 to #49 - politicalmiddle (12/17/2015) [-]
:I Points out that I covered reflecting on them with my *moral code* line. Anywho 40% in jest anywho so no big deal anywho
#12 - neeeeee (12/17/2015) [-]
This actually hits home pretty hard, cause thats how my mom feels about me, and a huge part of it really is my fault.
#46 to #12 - anon (12/17/2015) [-]
No matter what you think, they will never not love you.

Being disappointed is just their way of saying that they are sad and only want the best for you

Them caring enough to be disappointed is a proof they do care about you.
#57 to #46 - anon (12/17/2015) [-]
I met a homeless man the other day, he had asked his mom if he could get home for a while, it was freezing cold and he wanted to get warm, and maybe something to eat. She said no. I Don't know her side of the story, and all he said about it was "it's for the best, we never get along for more than a short while", or something among those lines. So yeah, a mom who wouldn't help her son at Christmas time, if she loves him, she sure doesn't know how to show it I get that he might have been a lot of trouble, like he could have been a really bad person who wouldn't change, but still...
User avatar #80 to #57 - bigmanfifty (12/17/2015) [-]
Homeless people are often on hard drugs (heroin, meth). So they need to steal **** to feed their habit.
#25 to #12 - captchakid ONLINE (12/17/2015) [-]
Maybe you should stop being such a pain in her ass and change something then?
User avatar #41 to #25 - thegrimpoe (12/17/2015) [-]
smug anime face! o no! the magnum opus of rhetoric!
#56 to #41 - mixedfeelings (12/17/2015) [-]
they aren't smug enough tho
#26 to #25 - anon (12/17/2015) [-]
Maybe it's something he's trying to change and isn't easy, you jackass.
#32 to #26 - captchakid ONLINE (12/17/2015) [-]
Then maybe he should man the **** up?
#38 to #32 - captainprincess ONLINE (12/17/2015) [-]
That doesnt even make sense faggot
#42 to #38 - captchakid ONLINE (12/17/2015) [-]
Maybe if you weren't so thick.
User avatar #43 to #42 - captainprincess ONLINE (12/17/2015) [-]
nah
doesn't quite work
#84 to #32 - anon (12/17/2015) [-]
I'm sure your mom would be just as proud if she knew you collect smug anime faces for a living
User avatar #83 to #25 - stillnotbob (12/17/2015) [-]
SHUT UP LEVVY
User avatar #48 to #12 - ImmortalBaconEater (12/17/2015) [-]
It's probably a lot more about how you feel about yourself than it is about how your parents feel about you. They will always love you. They may criticize but it's only to make sure you're following a path that truly makes you happy. I could be full of **** , but my guess is that whatever you're doing with your life isn't making you happy. Finding what does isn't easy, but it's worth it. Following your dreams is easy. Figuring out what they really are is the hard part.
User avatar #85 to #48 - neeeeee (12/17/2015) [-]
You´re actually right. What I am doing right now is not fulfilling to me in the slightest, and I dont know what I really want. Thanks for the inspirational words.
#16 to #12 - anon (12/17/2015) [-]
**anonymous used "*roll picture*"**
**anonymous rolled image** What are you doing about it? I mean it is obviously something you care about and as long as you live you can still steer in the wind.
User avatar #7 - ohemgeezus (12/17/2015) [-]
this is okay. not bad.
#60 - masanori (12/17/2015) [-]
Mfw all these comments about being disappointments and I'm over here with parents who regularly tell me how proud they are of me and my accomplishments.
User avatar #2 - pawnman (12/16/2015) [-]
this is good. I like it.
User avatar #20 to #2 - undesirable (12/17/2015) [-]
This is right under adequate.
User avatar #29 to #2 - sociocat (12/17/2015) [-]
This is amazing
I hate it
#59 - improbable (12/17/2015) [-]
if you keep spiting your child then one day he will become better
#65 to #59 - maximumpotato (12/17/2015) [-]
*bitter.
User avatar #14 - baditch (12/17/2015) [-]
A twist on an old classic
User avatar #10 - darthblam (12/17/2015) [-]
It's ok, I guess.
#4 - imjared (12/17/2015) [-]
this is good. i like it.
#68 - spanishninja ONLINE (12/17/2015) [-]
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