Watching some dumb ugly ass bloke talking loudly really pisses me off. Only thing worse is when the cameraman are one of those retards who talks or breathes loudly
Clearly because I don't want to stare at a dude's dick while i'm beating off means that i'm insecure about my sexuality. Or maybe I'm so confident in my sexuality that I know that I'm not interested in seeing a dude's dick. Kinda a buzz kill when I'm trying to fap to a chick and they do a close-up dick-and-ball shot. Besides, lesbian porn, twice the number of girls on average, none of the dick. That's a win-win.
I mean I get that it's not appealing but I just....you know.....look at the girl not the dicks. Im not so mezmorized by phallus that Im suddenly not appreciating Tina over there working her heart out. She deserves better. But I wanna see her get ****** , not imagine it. Hey man porn is subjective. To each his/her own, just as long as we respect each other and aren't assholes about it.
Are you gay? Who the **** wants to stare at some ******* dumbass ramming his ugly ass cock into a vagina exept queers? When i watch porn, i'd like to imagine that i am the one who rams my big fat veiny schlong into that vagina, not some other ******** . Watching straightporn makes me ******* angry, i prefer lesbian or solo porns.
Well, you don't have to be like super loud, but at least you can amp up the volume of your breath, take deep inhales, the ocassional small moan of pleasure.
**whimsicalmagnus used "*roll picture*"** **whimsicalmagnus rolled image**I'm the same, tho admittedly I'm a virgin I hate people people are loud, in pornos I often will mute it if the people ******* get too loud, I can only imagine in sex if someone was getting loud all I'd be able to think of is "shut the **** up"
**eatwaffles used "*roll picture*"** **eatwaffles rolled image**I love a little noise. You don't have to sound like you are taking a dump or lifting heavy weights, but a little moan here or there totally turns me on. A soft "oh..." is nice too, especially right in the ear.... mmmmm.
I like it when my bf makes noises during sex. Doesn't have to be insane moaning like in porn or anything, or really forced "OH MY GOOOOOD!!", but it's nice to know when it just feels so good that something escapes. Hell even him panting in my ear from exertion is dead sexy. I like feeling wanted, and I like knowing that he's enjoying me and the experience.
A bit of moaning yea lets me know I'm actually doing something she enjoys but if its really loud moaning or to the point were shes just screaming than its a massive turn off personally.
My ex told me that once, but I really hate making noise. I ended up kinda grunting a little bit for her sake. It's just not in me to be making noise at all. The most is heavy breathing
Of course this isn't really a problem for me right now, as I haven't been intimate in about a year now. I can't stand any of the women I meet nowadays. Gone on a thousand dates and hated them all.
I'm the same way, bro. I'm just a naturally quiet person, and I'm so well conditioned that even going as hard as I can doesn't really make me breathe heavily at all. To make up for it, I kiss a lot, and I'll tell her how good she feels, that I wish we could do this all day, etc.
Me and my GF have both had to compromise. I don't like a screamer and she doesn't like it silent. So I've come around a little to making certain noises and junk, while she has learned to dial it back and control herself (which watching her struggle with it is also a personal turn-on.)
At the risk of starting another impromptu transgender Q&A and having people people sitting there harassing me and telling me to kill myself, I do feel like mentioning a bit about this since I have a bit of experience on it.
To be perfectly honest guys, don't feel like you have to moan. If you moan, it should be because you are doing so as a result of the pleasure. If you're faking it, it's super obvious and a turn off. That being said, it's hot hearing a guy pant while he's going at it.
Now, for the ladies wanting their guy to moan, the bottom line is that most guys really don't moan. Women are more likely to. When you moan, it just happens because of the feelings of pleasure. It's mostly involuntary. I'm transgender and I never moaned as a guy, but as a girl, things feel much more intense, and I usually can't control it. Pleasure is felt differently and your body intuitively responds to it in other ways. My lovers hands running across my belly or along my thighs can set me on fire and have me screaming whether I want to or not. But it's also easier to just let go and blot out all my thoughts. As a guy, you're still more tuned in to what's going on around you. Sex is also more of a full body ordeal for women, which isn't really the case for men. So be understanding a bit for why your hubby/boyfriend is dead silent in bed.
Now, I've known a couple guys who moan, but it's usually near the end of it right before ejaculation. Usually an "o **** " is common.
And I always thought they trained themselves not to make noise from age 12 so nobody will hear them jerk off until they leave home at 18-20 or w/e. Bad habits die hard, thanks for the info but I still feel alone and unenjoyable in the silence, also self concious at making any noise myself and anyone staring at me come, I don't do it much and the whole biz just sucks. I don't like to be judged and now that men stare at me to come I have "performance anxiety" and can't do it with him. If he would forget himself and get carried away having pleasure, I could too... but NO. ........... This his him staring at me when I'm supposed to come.
I mean for guys it technically is a "full" body kind of experience, but more in the sense that we're focusing on thrusting and stuff. I know you're talking more along the lines of the pleasure aspect of it, I'm just saying.
Yeah yeah I know there's different positions. But we tend to do a lot more of the "work", at least in my experience. My ex didn't like being top or doing work... which sucks cause I find that really hot.
I say full body, because unlike guys, everything can be an erogenous zone on female bodies. As I said, touch works differently. I can reach orgasm from having my thighs or sides touched if I'm really, really into the person. Plus when I orgasm, I feel it in more than just my genital area. It spreads throughout my entire body, from the chest to my toes. Everyone is different, and maybe I'm wrong, but most males I talk to agree that it's very localized.
Also, I'm not sure if it's inexperience with my body, though a lot of women seem to agree with this, it's hard to get off as a girl, it really is. Yes, generally men do most of the work, and that's totally true, but I find I can't focus enough to reach orgasm unless I let my partner do that for me. It feels a bit selfish, but that's just how it is. It's much more psychological and less physical. It can feel really, really good, but I won't climax.
I don't have much artistic talents
I'd actually like to get into stargazing but idk
all the hobbies I want to do seem like the kind of things that won't make me and friends
I used to have a star globe as a kid
I'd love to buy a telescope and some equipment to take my own photos of the stars
sitting out in my garden at night drinking hot chocolate
I'm a sucker for neck & ear biting. I didn't like the idea initially of dirty talk but when he calls me "good girl" or tells me how wet I am it's a massive turn on as a result of already being turned on
i cant bring myself to talk during sex, i feel like anything i say would sound awkward and then i just tunnel vision what i am doing so i just dont **** up.
my ex fiance was like a dead fish in bed. chick wopuld literally just put her butt in the air like "have at." and she expected effort too, so i had to go at this chick like a friggin frieght train to try to get both of us off, while focusing the whole damn time. i never made a damn noise in bed lol