If you are in a friendship that you can turn into a relationship simply by asking the girl you are not in the friendzone, you are a pussy. The friendzone is being in a friendship that all you want is for it to be a relationship but even though you try over and over it comes to no avail. You see her with other men and it kills you because you love her. But you know that if you left her, let her leave your life forever. You would just be depressed. You would die. She is all that you have and if a friendship is all she sees in you then you do whatever you have to do to keep that friendship.