Friend zone
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her eyes, like her brewer, er as temp.
her eyes, like her brewer, er as temp.
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anon (01/06/2016) [-]
I have this girl i would like to make my girlfriend.She is my friend (but she didn"t friendzone me, will comment later on the difference if asked). She said she doesn't have love feeling toward me. How can I change her heart ?
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anon (01/07/2016) [-]
Here are some things you can do:
1. Honestly tell her you have romantic feelings for her and, if she isn't able to reciprocate those feelings for you, tell her you can't be both wasting your time and then start from scratch from there. Better now when it's still early than when you've already emotionally invested in her.
2. If you feel she is worth the baggage of romance, just stay the course. Feelings don't change overnight; it takes time, persistence, patience, and the right timing, even when you feel you don't have the chemistry.
3. Browse FJ and stay happy though fake happiness is the worst sadness
1. Honestly tell her you have romantic feelings for her and, if she isn't able to reciprocate those feelings for you, tell her you can't be both wasting your time and then start from scratch from there. Better now when it's still early than when you've already emotionally invested in her.
2. If you feel she is worth the baggage of romance, just stay the course. Feelings don't change overnight; it takes time, persistence, patience, and the right timing, even when you feel you don't have the chemistry.
3. Browse FJ and stay happy though fake happiness is the worst sadness
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switchctiws ONLINE (01/07/2016) [-] First of all, take a long hard look at yourself and ask if it's really worth it to make her your girlfriend and if your feelings aren't just superficial.
Now, if you really do like this girl then just wait and try to be a really good friend to her. Generally, a person's heart will change after some time and they'll start to develop feelings for you. Thing is, is it really worth it? This could take a very, very long time. And often it's better to just find someone else before your feelings get too deep.
I'm speaking from experience because I was in your situation, sort of. There was this girl that I liked a lot. I told her early on that I had feelings for her and she immediately friendzoned me, but I kept on liking her. Years passed by and we eventually got very close. I still liked her the entire time. She ended up developing strong feelings for me even though she said she never would, over and over again.
It didn't work out.
I devoted so much of my life to her, and it ended up not working out.
If I were to offer some personal advice, I would say try for a little while with this girl, because it's still worth a shot, but after that little while, just try to find someone else. It's not worth it to keep lingering on the same person when there's such a slim chance that things will go well. And even then, there's an even slimmer chance that things will continue to go well.
Now, if you really do like this girl then just wait and try to be a really good friend to her. Generally, a person's heart will change after some time and they'll start to develop feelings for you. Thing is, is it really worth it? This could take a very, very long time. And often it's better to just find someone else before your feelings get too deep.
I'm speaking from experience because I was in your situation, sort of. There was this girl that I liked a lot. I told her early on that I had feelings for her and she immediately friendzoned me, but I kept on liking her. Years passed by and we eventually got very close. I still liked her the entire time. She ended up developing strong feelings for me even though she said she never would, over and over again.
It didn't work out.
I devoted so much of my life to her, and it ended up not working out.
If I were to offer some personal advice, I would say try for a little while with this girl, because it's still worth a shot, but after that little while, just try to find someone else. It's not worth it to keep lingering on the same person when there's such a slim chance that things will go well. And even then, there's an even slimmer chance that things will continue to go well.
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psychotayto (01/06/2016) [-] no idiot you're her self esteem booster. She keeps you around to feed off of the attention you give her instead of straight up rejecting you
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boarderlinegreat (01/06/2016) [-] **boarderlinegreat rolled user skippypappy ** Or a toothbrush... no wait that would actually mean she'd take you in her mouth...
