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#31 - leobreacker (03/23/2014) [-]
17, bro, work at a suicide hotline kinda thing.
Sup?
User avatar #192 to #31 - lyder ONLINE (03/23/2014) [-]
16, average, unfortunately non-working male. I'd... Kinda like some advice with a girl that I really care about. She feels like she's done with life. I keep my faith to the internet until it leads me otherwise. I can tell you some details if you want, but nothing too personal. For either side.
#203 to #192 - leobreacker (03/24/2014) [-]
Talk to her about the usual stuff you see on the internet.   
Tell her there's much more to life she will never experience if she thinks of doing it.   
Don't bring out the words 'kill yourself'  even in a sentence like "don't kill yourself"   
Tell her even if everything in the world around her is going wrong, the last thing you want to do is give up.    
   
And it doesn't matter if she has a bf and you're just some friend of hers, tell her there are people who care for her and she would hurt them if she hurt herself.    
   
Show that you really, really care. Be like, "Just don't do it, please. look at me, please."   
Bro, if you care about her, show her you care. Bring out all her good qualities in the conversation and talk about what she could achieve.    
   
Are her problems family related by any chance?   
I hope I am helping.
Talk to her about the usual stuff you see on the internet.
Tell her there's much more to life she will never experience if she thinks of doing it.
Don't bring out the words 'kill yourself' even in a sentence like "don't kill yourself"
Tell her even if everything in the world around her is going wrong, the last thing you want to do is give up.

And it doesn't matter if she has a bf and you're just some friend of hers, tell her there are people who care for her and she would hurt them if she hurt herself.

Show that you really, really care. Be like, "Just don't do it, please. look at me, please."
Bro, if you care about her, show her you care. Bring out all her good qualities in the conversation and talk about what she could achieve.

Are her problems family related by any chance?
I hope I am helping.
User avatar #207 to #203 - lyder ONLINE (03/24/2014) [-]
I'm just going to reply as I read. Thanks, by the way.
I'm glad to know I'm doing something right by avoiding certain words and phrases.
It's both family and friend related. She's had a falling out with most of her friends she's been with for a long time. We're sophomores in highschool now. Family-wise, contributions might have to do with her always choosing others' happiness over her own. I don't know about one thing though. She's told me that she thinks she can only be happy through ending herself. I'm wholly against that, but I said I wouldn't guilt trip her that way - I don't want to seem like I'm betraying her, because I feel like I'm one of the last people she has left.
User avatar #201 to #192 - whynotzoidberglol ONLINE (03/24/2014) [-]
I'm some guy who has talked people out of suicide. You can trust me, or not. I have talked to people dealing with depression and I've gone through suicidal tendencies. I want to help others if I can.
User avatar #202 to #201 - lyder ONLINE (03/24/2014) [-]
Nothing's ever certain in my life anymore. She makes the third I've talked to about it, and I do try my best. I like to think I make a difference, but I don't know for sure. It's not the kind of thing to ask her, you know?
I always thought my life was bad, until I got to know others'. She goes through a lot, and I feel like I have a tough time convincing her that it'll be worth something one day.
User avatar #205 to #202 - whynotzoidberglol ONLINE (03/24/2014) [-]
I'm guessing she is the same age as you. I know it's a bit personal, but could you tell me what she is going through? I mean, I can't say like "move on" or anything like that. You can PM if that'll make it better. Life is full of important factors, and to evaluate something, you're going to need all the factors.
User avatar #210 to #205 - lyder ONLINE (03/24/2014) [-]
Like I told leobreacker, I won't delve into any too personal details.
We're the same age, both highschool sophomores. Recently (last Wed.) we told each other over the phone that we liked each other (it's actually really... idk. how that happened) I don't know if she feels about me as much as I feel for her, but I don't think that much has changed. For a while now I guess I've been a go-to guy for advice for her. Someone to listen to her. A shoulder to lean on.
Past few days have been hard on her. She's a real busybody. I considered her out of my league.
She does TaiKwonDo, marching band, helps tutor, takes dance. A whole load of responsibilities that I can't even imagine on my shoulders. She sprained her wrist the other day. I know these couple things I'm about to mention will seem small but they all have a compiling effect on her. Saturday there was a competition for TKD she's been looking forward to all year, and she couldn't compete. Couldn't even watch. Whoever oversaw the whole deal thought it'd be better if she just advised some of the newer kids practicing (she's been doing Tkd for years). Then later Saturday night she was moving boxes with her family to a house her mom's just bought (single mom- dad left them when she was younger, doesn't pay child support or **** ). She hurt her wrist again doing that. Today, she had dance practice, her teacher didn't show any mercy - I think those are the words she used. Hurt her wrist again.
User avatar #215 to #210 - leobreacker (03/24/2014) [-]
Woah man, I had a feeling she accomplished a lot.
Maybe ask her out to go somewhere, go to the park, walk around down town, talk about all the hilarious and embarrassing stuff you did in your life, make her laugh.

Don't go to the movies, unless she wants to. Just chill for the day and then when its time to part, tell her to call you if she has any kind of problems, and this point it doesn't matter if she friend zones you. Tell her "I'll be your shoulder to cry on" with a smile, give her a hug and wait till she leaves. (Drop her off, if possible)
User avatar #221 to #215 - lyder ONLINE (03/24/2014) [-]
I do make her laugh. That's one thing I know I need to do. Constantly reminding her that she still can laugh.
User avatar #219 to #215 - lyder ONLINE (03/24/2014) [-]
That's what I hate about my situation, our situation. The both of us know that I can't do that kind of thing. I'm not saying it's 'cause I'm Asian, but I will say that it's part of it. My folks hardly let my older brother - 19, college freshman - out of the house. He's had a hidden girlfriend for about 3 years now. Needless to say my parents don't look kindly upon someone that could distract us from doing well in our academics. It's a nonnegotiable type thing, I know my parents. Closest thing I have to doing stuff after school with friends is the occasional half-day hangout or lying about what I'm doing after school.
User avatar #223 to #219 - leobreacker (03/24/2014) [-]
Hey same here! MY parents are just like yours and so is my brother EXACTLY like yours.

**** bro, this just got a little creepy. Then do the after school/lunch thing, chill with her everytime you have the chance to.
User avatar #224 to #223 - lyder ONLINE (03/24/2014) [-]
The best I can do is try. It's the best we all can. I don't see it realistically because of all she needs to do after school anyways.
User avatar #213 to #210 - whynotzoidberglol ONLINE (03/24/2014) [-]
Okay, then what Leobreacker said is perfect. What about you? Is she affecting you a lot? Do you have problems being happy recently?
User avatar #216 to #213 - lyder ONLINE (03/24/2014) [-]
A thing I've been told is that I'm a good mediator, that I can see multiple points of views and be the messenger for everyone. Describing myself, I love to see those I care about happy. My own happiness doesn't matter as much as long as I can be there for someone, and right now it's her. I shoulder my burdens, how little they may seem, and I don't say anything.
But she tells me I understand her, and to a point, I do.
I know how it feels to want your own happiness above all else for once. To want to be selfish. The whole "why can't I win for once" screams in my head from a text she sent me a few days ago
User avatar #225 to #216 - leobreacker (03/24/2014) [-]
Man I'm the same, we have so much in common its unbelievable. I am getting chills every time I read your stuff. I have hooked up my crushes since forever just so they can be happy.

The worst thing I hear from people is "You're too nice man, be a little selfish every now and then" But I just can't, I know I hurt myself and i am not ashamed to say this, I cry at night thinking about all the girls I let go but her happy now. In a way, you want to see her happy, so do your best. **** the rules, **** your parents. Go out there and save a life.
User avatar #222 to #216 - whynotzoidberglol ONLINE (03/24/2014) [-]
Keep that that up then. It's not horrible to want yourself to be happy above all, its called you being human. Show her you care, tell her you guys will run away and live in a magical wonderland filled with leprechauns and unicorns. If you are the person she cares for, and it pains you to see her like this, then she will change. You both will. Man, you guys are going to be inseparable.
User avatar #226 to #222 - leobreacker (03/24/2014) [-]
Exactly, this^^^^^^
User avatar #211 to #210 - lyder ONLINE (03/24/2014) [-]
Damn this might be too personal but what the heck.
User avatar #54 to #31 - dragongod (03/23/2014) [-]
How'd you get into working that?
User avatar #102 to #54 - leobreacker (03/23/2014) [-]
My dads friend got me in it, apparently they hardly ever hire.
I only work when I need some quick cash since they already have a lot of staff.

Im stills searching for a good job at something like pizzapizza, mc donalds etc.
I get my money from the suicide line and youtube.

(Poor fag)

Oh, hello btw c:
User avatar #108 to #102 - dragongod (03/23/2014) [-]
What do you do on Youtube?
User avatar #110 to #108 - leobreacker (03/23/2014) [-]
Just upload videos, I'm one of those youtube partners who don't upload regularly and get payed anyway. www.youtube.com/user/Leobreacker
#127 to #110 - lastsamurai (03/23/2014) [-]
i play league, if u play on euw u can add "pay" if you want.
18, norway, bro.
User avatar #135 to #127 - leobreacker (03/23/2014) [-]
Naw man, I am in the NA server.
Besides I don't plan to upload any more game videos until I get a better pc.

#144 to #135 - lastsamurai (03/23/2014) [-]
**** everyone's on NA here.
Anyway, cya ;)
#145 to #144 - leobreacker (03/23/2014) [-]
Lol yeah, later!
Lol yeah, later!
User avatar #113 to #110 - dragongod (03/23/2014) [-]
I see I see
User avatar #34 to #31 - decayingapple (03/23/2014) [-]
kill yourself
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