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#140367 - Womens Study Major (06/25/2014) [-]
So me and this chick. We used to date, and we broke up. I loved her more than she loved me and it really hurt. But I never really got over it. Recently, she started showing an interest again but I feel like I'm being rejected every step of the way. I think she still cares for me, but she knows that she doesn't LOVE me like I loved (and still love) her. So we're torn between trying again and not trying again for our own sanity. But I'm going insane without her...

HALP.
User avatar #140549 to #140367 - hoponthefeelstrain (06/26/2014) [-]
she's coming back to you because she loves the attention you give her and they way you make her feel, she thinks she's loves you but really just how you make her feel. This isn't a bad thing but she will leave you for someone new because there's a chance at TRUE love, and what does she have to lose? You'll always be there for her. Also meeting someone new is so exciting. So yea don't date, it'll just end bad.
#140377 to #140367 - thatnigger (06/25/2014) [-]
No, you shouldn't do that.   
   
If she doesn't love you, even if she's interested or likes you just a bit, it's still not love. It won't last, you're only making it harder for you to move on. It's hard to move on, but you know you'll have to eventually, so you might as well start sooner then make it harder for yourself and hurt yourself even more.   
   
 I-I did it xXThatxOnexGuyXx.
No, you shouldn't do that.

If she doesn't love you, even if she's interested or likes you just a bit, it's still not love. It won't last, you're only making it harder for you to move on. It's hard to move on, but you know you'll have to eventually, so you might as well start sooner then make it harder for yourself and hurt yourself even more.

I-I did it xXThatxOnexGuyXx.
#140380 to #140377 - Womens Study Major (06/25/2014) [-]
But what if over time she grows to love me, and it does last? That's what I can stop hoping/thinking about
User avatar #140384 to #140380 - thatnigger (06/25/2014) [-]
Think about it like this, there's no guarantee that she'll grow to love you and continue to love you. Not only that but somewhere inside you, there's a chance that you're a bit upset or mad at her that she didn't love you as much which eventually let to you breaking up. If you do feel like that and she doesn't make it up to you, anything she does wrong might feel worse then it is and eventually you might even feel like she's walking all over you. It's a bad idea or though I can't blame you for thinking like that.
#140386 to #140384 - Womens Study Major (06/25/2014) [-]
Thanks a lot man. You've given me plenty to think about. I'm not sure I can just give up on her, but maybe I should just pull the courage to do it. We're talking on facebook right now and everything seems fine, and she seems interested and flirting a little- which doesn't help. I don't know, I'm really confused.

But your advice is definitely noted, thanks
#140381 to #140380 - Womens Study Major (06/25/2014) [-]
*can't
User avatar #140370 to #140367 - fukkendragonite (06/25/2014) [-]
You can't force people to feel a certain way unfortunately. If it's going to end in tears again, don't bother.
User avatar #140368 to #140367 - makotoitou (06/25/2014) [-]
stop being a god damn pussy and fuck her mother to establish dominance.
User avatar #140369 to #140368 - fukkendragonite (06/25/2014) [-]
Best. Advice. Evar.
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